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Not sure on doing a Christmas tradition this year.
Animalloverb
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I am having a debate with myself at the moment.
Some of you may already know, but I am Christian and normally on Christmas I would go to church, I went with my fiancé but obviously I won't be able to anymore.
I am unsure on what to do this year as I now have my son, it will be his first ever Christmas not in hospital but also his first ever Christmas with a parent and I don't want to have to take a toddler to church, I would but I am unsure of the way he will be about it but also with his weak immune system.
Some of you may already know, but I am Christian and normally on Christmas I would go to church, I went with my fiancé but obviously I won't be able to anymore.
I am unsure on what to do this year as I now have my son, it will be his first ever Christmas not in hospital but also his first ever Christmas with a parent and I don't want to have to take a toddler to church, I would but I am unsure of the way he will be about it but also with his weak immune system.
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I normally go to church on Christmas eve and Christmas day. I decided to nit attend the church service today and I am still debating about the one tomorrow.
Today has been going alright, my son has been watching films and I have been preparing things for tomorrow.
I don't feel in the spirit though. I am trying to show up for my kid, this time of year is so overwhelming and there are a few people this year that have passed which is making things more difficult, but I am trying to be strong for my kid.
I am feeling alright about tomorrow, we will just take the day slowly, as it also depends on how my son is. I may miss church this year and try again next year.
Taking tomorrow slowly sounds like a great idea, whatever desision you make I hope you have a momement tomorrow to feel at ease and relax from the pressures you are going through, and if you don't feel good tomorrow, just take the day as it comes, we are here to listen.