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Miss you brother
Animalloverb
Posts: 347 The Mix Regular
I know this probably isn't the place to do this, but I feel way more secure being putting it here then i would if i were just write it on my notes or in a notebook or a letter. You don't have to read them, I just want to put my thoughts down to give my mind some space for other awful things.
My brother was one of the funniest, kindest, and most adventurous person I have ever known. He had this way of just making life feel so much lighter then it actually was. No matter how tough things got he made it so there was always room for a laugh or a new adventure.
One of my favourite memories with him was the very first time I took him out for his birthday. Nobody has ever taken him out for his birthday before, and I still remember that day clearly, the way his excitement and shock was expressed, it was like he could not quite believe it was all for him. He laughed so much louder that night, and the way he expressed to me how he finally felt seen and celebrated, that memorie will stay with me forever.
That was the kind of person he was, he was someone who deserved to be celebrated every single day. His sense of humour could lift the heaviest mood, his kindness made people feel at home instantly, and his adventurous spirit reminded me not to take life for granted. He was not afraid to try new things, or to dive into the unknown. And he always wanted to bring me along for the adventure.
I miss him more then words will ever say, but I hold onto those moments, the laughter, the adventures, and that birthday night when he finally got to see and know how special he truly was. I will keep celebrating him in little ways and big ways for the rest of my life. And that's my promise to him.
I miss you bud.
You touched my heart, your soul was full of kindness and you didn't deserve to have such a short time on earth. You will be forever missed by me.
My brother was one of the funniest, kindest, and most adventurous person I have ever known. He had this way of just making life feel so much lighter then it actually was. No matter how tough things got he made it so there was always room for a laugh or a new adventure.
One of my favourite memories with him was the very first time I took him out for his birthday. Nobody has ever taken him out for his birthday before, and I still remember that day clearly, the way his excitement and shock was expressed, it was like he could not quite believe it was all for him. He laughed so much louder that night, and the way he expressed to me how he finally felt seen and celebrated, that memorie will stay with me forever.
That was the kind of person he was, he was someone who deserved to be celebrated every single day. His sense of humour could lift the heaviest mood, his kindness made people feel at home instantly, and his adventurous spirit reminded me not to take life for granted. He was not afraid to try new things, or to dive into the unknown. And he always wanted to bring me along for the adventure.
I miss him more then words will ever say, but I hold onto those moments, the laughter, the adventures, and that birthday night when he finally got to see and know how special he truly was. I will keep celebrating him in little ways and big ways for the rest of my life. And that's my promise to him.
I miss you bud.
You touched my heart, your soul was full of kindness and you didn't deserve to have such a short time on earth. You will be forever missed by me.
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Have you tried making a box dedicated to him, where you can put memories, objects, letters .