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nemnem Posts: 401 Listening Ear
in Sex & Relationships
Is it okay to meet up with guys from apps?
I deleted tinder and hinge cus I’ve been seeing a guy but I’m on hookup ones
Cus we haven’t said we’re exclusive
But i don’t want home to see me on tinder

Comments

  • Matthew_04Matthew_04 Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 364 Listening Ear
    Hey @nem
    Just as long as you're safe when using these apps and allowed to be on them it's totally fine!
    It's nice of you to consider how he feels about you being on tinder but i totally get your dilemma about the hookup apps.
    I'm wondering if a conversation about boundaries and hookups would be useful to have with this guy, if you haven't already?
  • nemnem Posts: 401 Listening Ear
    Some guy on Grindr keeps messaging me:
    Hi with you being on this site can I ask are you male or female? I see you in *** sometimes in the evening walking about as if you have no place to go.
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,324 Part of The Furniture
    nem wrote: »
    Some guy on Grindr keeps messaging me:
    Hi with you being on this site can I ask are you male or female? I see you in *** sometimes in the evening walking about as if you have no place to go.

    Are you able to block this person @nem if its unwanted contact?
  • nemnem Posts: 401 Listening Ear
    I like male validation though
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