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Going out in the day

ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,900 The Mix Elder
edited August 2025 in Health & Wellbeing
I don't go out, not bowling, not Wittingham broard or anything. Could the atmosphere I'm in done it, or how I feel or something else. I feel like someone else is in control. I'm not in ppl good books at the moment. They make up accusations saying tht I'm aggressive but I point out where ppl r going wrong and 'professionals' don't like it. I wish I had moved already. I play games instead of going out
Crazy mad insane

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  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,900 The Mix Elder
    B4 mums iwd bc a tenant under their care threw an ab dab n aimed it at me. they apologised to mum n i didn't get anything. is tht normal for 'care'?
    Crazy mad insane
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,900 The Mix Elder
    Wen I sed 'IWD' to two carers they didn't come n see If I was alright
    Crazy mad insane
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,561 An Original Mixlorian
    ellie2000 wrote: »
    Wen I sed 'IWD' to two carers they didn't come n see If I was alright

    hi ellie how are you today? can i ask what that means? ‘iwd’ as i am not sure.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,900 The Mix Elder
    @eylah Iwd is a triggering phrase I w_nn_ __e
    I did it like tht bc I don't wanna upset ppl
    I'm doing sport today and everything is gd 😀 I got a festival at the weekend 😀
    Crazy mad insane
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,561 An Original Mixlorian
    edited August 2025
    ellie2000 wrote: »
    @eylah Iwd is a triggering phrase I w_nn_ __e
    I did it like tht bc I don't wanna upset ppl
    I'm doing sport today and everything is gd 😀 I got a festival at the weekend 😀

    hi ellie im sry you’re feeling like you are. do you have any support with how you’re feeling? we’re here for you ellie you’re not alone. <3.

    that’s nice that you are occupying yourself with things you enjoy im here listening ellie you’re not alone. <3

    also when you say you want to die are you feeling safe right now? it’s okay if you aren’t there’s originations out there which can help you.

    here’s a few if you ever need them.

    shout - 85258
    samaritans - 116123
    111 option 2 - to connect to your local mental health service.
    999 in an emergency.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,900 The Mix Elder
    edited August 2025
    @eylah I'm gd, I'm well. Wen something happens like someone going off for no reason I don't do gd, y do stuff still trigger me? I sed it bc I felt unsettled
    Crazy mad insane
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,561 An Original Mixlorian
    ellie2000 wrote: »
    @eylah I'm gd, I'm well. Wen something happens like someone going off for no reason I don't do gd, y do stuff still trigger me? I sed it bc I felt unsettled

    hi @ellie2000 how are you today? <3 i hope you’re well.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • Sian321Sian321 Community Manager Posts: 3,654 Community Veteran
    Hey @ellie2000 , how are you feeling today? It sounds like your living situation has continued to feel really stressful. I noticed you said that another resident threw a "ab dab n" at you - is that right?

    Can I ask what an ab dab is?

    That sounds so hard and stressful to go through, and no one has a right to throw things at you. How are you feeling after that?

    We're here for you and were's listening
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,900 The Mix Elder
    @eylah @Sian321 I went to a local festival this weekend. Tht calmed me down from the week. I was looking at stuff after the meeting coz I found out tht wat bs they right in the book like reversing situations wen I just walk away and the false accusations will stop me getting somewhere else? Should we mention the human rights act, section 9?
    I'm gd, I'm back at mums next week and gna go to mums if it's gets too much 😀
    Crazy mad insane
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,900 The Mix Elder
    The manager used to b a prison officer, and he had a place shut down coz it's care was inadequate.
    Crazy mad insane
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