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L/T Relationship vs. Cute Girl
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Ok, here's a major problem thats really eating me.
I have a girlfriend who ive been with for over a year and i used to think i was really in love with. She lives on the other side of the country and has been abroad much of the last year so we dont reallyt see each other all that much.
Ive been determined to stick with her despite various problems through the last year but its just become a strain. The last month or so she has been a real bitch to me and has turned against me a little at a difficult time.
To make things worse, at this point ive had numerous girls offer themselves to me on a plate (and i have been very attracted to a number) and have ended up cheating on her in a couple of cases (i had been faithful to her for the year until now). Whilst i feel guilty, im thinking that its probably a sign that somehtying is wrong generally and i dont feel for her the way i did. But i still care for her and dont want to hurt her by breaking things up. What a mess!@!!! What shall i do people?????????
I have a girlfriend who ive been with for over a year and i used to think i was really in love with. She lives on the other side of the country and has been abroad much of the last year so we dont reallyt see each other all that much.
Ive been determined to stick with her despite various problems through the last year but its just become a strain. The last month or so she has been a real bitch to me and has turned against me a little at a difficult time.
To make things worse, at this point ive had numerous girls offer themselves to me on a plate (and i have been very attracted to a number) and have ended up cheating on her in a couple of cases (i had been faithful to her for the year until now). Whilst i feel guilty, im thinking that its probably a sign that somehtying is wrong generally and i dont feel for her the way i did. But i still care for her and dont want to hurt her by breaking things up. What a mess!@!!! What shall i do people?????????
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Id say finish it before it gets harder and harder!
Like everyone else has said, you will hurt her more if she finds out you been cheating
The fact that she been a bitch to you may tell you she unhappy in the relationship as well. Just dump her nicely and find a girl nearer home.
Also you say you have changed feeling for her now
You know its for the best to end it now, It maybe hard because you have been together over a year but its best all round for you and its fair on her seeing as you cheated on her.
I was with my boyfriend for just over a year, he's spent most of this year abroad. I had offers from several people and cheated on him in the end. During my exams he was a complete bastard to me.
Anyways, in the end I told him I cheated on him and that it wouldn't be fair on either of us to stay in the relationship anymore. He went a bit pyscho and hurled insults at me, so we shouted at each other for a week then agreed to calm down and haven't spoken since.
What I'm saying is: you've cheated, she's been a bitch to you when you needed her....accept that its over and tell her the truth.