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SimsSims Posts: 11 Settling in
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I'm so scared my friend set a date and I think it could be a suicide date especially with everything that's happened she tried to run away to my house even though I live far from her it's so bad I'm scared I love her but I don't know what to do when she relies on me I fear I'll mess up and lose her
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  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,525 The Mix Elder
    Hey @Sims thank you for sharing and I’m so sorry about what your going through, there actions isn’t your responsibility.

    You could contact emergency services
    A trusted adult
    One of there family members

    Boundaries can be super helpful, it’s great your wanting to help them but remember you come first and it’s okay to say “look no I’m not a professional you need to contact a professional”
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • shannon_164shannon_164 Community Connector Posts: 2,491 Boards Champion
    hey @Sims 🙂

    i’m really sorry you’re going through this - that sounds terrifying and so heavy and i can only imagine how scared and helpless you must feel right now. you are so clearly someone who loves deeply and wants to help, and your friend is lucky to have someone like you!

    it’s important to remember though that you don’t have to do this alone. if you think she’s in immediate danger, please make sure you reach out to someone who can step in,
    like a trusted adult, her parents, a school counsellor, or even emergency services if it’s urgent. i know that’s a hard step to take, but it could be the one that saves her life.

    you’re not “messing up” by needing help. being someone’s support doesn’t mean you have to carry everything by yourself. you have already done something brave by talking about this and we are all so proud of you!

    in case it’s helpful, i’m going to add some support options here:
    if you’re feeling unsafe pls reach out for immediate support from the following:
    nhs 111 - england / scotland / wales (option 2 for mental health)

    phone first - northern ireland (8am-6pm monday-friday; the number will vary depending on the health & social care trust area that you live in)

    out of hours - northern ireland (6pm-7:30am monday-friday, 24/7 weekends; the number will vary depending on the health & social care trust area that you live in)

    999 - england / scotland / wales / northern ireland

    uk helplines - some of these are specific to england / scotland / wales / northern ireland & also depend on age too:
    childline (24/7) - call 08001111

    shout (24/7) - text ‘shout’ to 85258

    hopeline (24/7) - text 88247

    samaritans (24/7) - call 116123

    lifeline (24/7) - call 08088088000

    papyrus (24/7) - call 08000684141

    inspire wellbeing (24/7) - call 08081890036

    community advice and listening line (24/7) - call 0800132737

    knus (24/7) - whatsapp 07700165687

    mind (9am-6pm) - call 03001233393

    rethink mental illness (9:30am-4pm) - call 03005000927

    kooth (12pm-10pm) - webchat on website

    saneline (4pm-10pm) - call 03003047000

    calm (5pm-12am) - call 0800585858

    suicide prevention uk (6pm-12am) - call 08005870800

    kelly’s heroes (6pm-11pm) - webchat on website

    sos (8pm-12am) - call 08001151505

    we are always here for you <3
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