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Help think I’m pregnant and it might be my cousins
Penny
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So a few days ago my cousin (will, 15) and his friend (Harry,14) (I’m 14) came to visit me and my family. We snuck out one night and we went to a party at a school friends house and Harry started flirting with me, anyway we were both quite drunk and we ended up having sex in a bathroom at the party. Consensually ofc. Will knew that we’d hooked up *he walked in on us* and was pissed. I told him to back off, and he let it go. But he kept asking what was it like, and how good was she. harry told him see for yourself and I ended up getting fucked by both of them. Just to clarify he’s not related to me, his parents are family friends and we call them cousins… so they went home the next day and I realised yesterday *6 days after* that my period was late. What should I do? And how do I know whose baby it is? And how do I tell my parents. They’re going to kill me. I’m literally 14 help.
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i’m really sorry you’re feeling this way. it sounds like you’re in a very tough and scary situation, and you need support from someone who can help you.
the most important thing right now is your safety and your health. would you be able to talk to a trusted adult - this could be a parent, a school counsellor, a doctor, or even a helpline? even if it feels terrifying, you don’t have to go through this alone, and you deserve help and support.
you can usually get pregnancy tests from a pharmacy or clinic, and some places offer them for free if this is what you wanted to do at this time. a professional can also explain your options and help you understand next steps too!
in case it’s helpful, childline have a page on their website specific to pregnancy and it includes information such as how to check if you’re pregnant, what options are available and how to ask an adult for help - here is the link:
i know you’re scared to talk to your parents, but telling them, or another trusted adult, is really important.
you’ve got this, i believe in you