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I hate him so much

RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,595 The Mix Elder
in Sex & Relationships
My bf has told my college friend stuff that I don’t want him to share and now I’m so fucking angry, I hate him so much and then he wonders why I don’t open up to him! I want to scream and cry at him
Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.

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  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,425 Legendary Poster
    he had no right to do that the feelings you feel rn are valid bc he had no right to share personal details abt you and your life without you agreeing. im so sry rose im here for you bc you matter greatly <3.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • Katie12Katie12 Posts: 437 Listening Ear
    I am sorry to hear that @Rose113. It is not fair of him to share details you didn't want him to. Is this something you can talk to him about? maybe showing him that you need to be able to trust him in order for you to feel like you can open up. Hope you're doing okay :heart:
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,595 The Mix Elder
    @Katie12 too late we broke up after he threatened to harm himself if I broke up with him leaving me in an impossible situation
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • Katie12Katie12 Posts: 437 Listening Ear
    @Rose113 I am so sorry to hear that! definitely an impossible and unfair situation for him to put you in. Most important thing is that you did what was best for you as well. I hope that you are doing okay :heart:
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