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Hate this family

RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,454 Community Veteran
in Health & Wellbeing
I don’t want to go for a walk tonight to the pub cos I’ve not stopped all day so I’m tired and don’t feel like being around people. so I got called miserable and rude :/ I don’t come on holiday for the walking and aching feet, I come for the holiday and the rest, sorry that they come for the miles of walking and for the pub every night :/
Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.

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  • pharmagirl27pharmagirl27 Posts: 27 Boards Initiate
    hello @Rose113 . i hope you are doing well.
    It is understandable that you may be feeling tired and overwhelmed however, do not stress/burn yourself out over it. Sometimes you need time to yourself, a break and rest. That does not make you any less of a person.
    Take some time to rest and re-energise. Your feelings and valid.

    Our bodies need rest, as well as our minds. Try doing something that you enjoy. Perhaps reading, listening to music, having a self-care day. Something that will ease your mind.

    Once you have done this, hopefully you will feel better and re-energised.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,454 Community Veteran
    Fuck this family
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,454 Community Veteran
    Why does she always think she knows best when she doesnt...she's not my mum! She may have adopted me but she isnt my mum!!
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • Orchid059Orchid059 Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 390 Listening Ear
    Hi @Rose113 I am sorry to hear you are having a hard time. Is there anything in particular that happened to make you feel this way? <3
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,454 Community Veteran
    @Orchid059 just my shitty family being them
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • Orchid059Orchid059 Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 390 Listening Ear
    @Rose113 if you feel comfortable sharing we can try and unpack it together. I can understand if you'd rather not share too and just wanted a way of getting it off your chest. We're aways here if you do need someone to chat to
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,454 Community Veteran
    Thank you @Orchid059 they just make me feel unwanted and like I should just get lost
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • Orchid059Orchid059 Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 390 Listening Ear
    I am sorry you have been made to feel this way @Rose113 you should never have to feel unwanted especially by family. You are important and you matter- don't let anyone treat you with any less respect than you deserve. I know family dynamics can be tricky but have you tried voicing your thoughts to someone in your family or perhaps a friend, someone who you feel like you are able to trust and confide in?

    We are here for you <3
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,454 Community Veteran
    @Orchid059 i have no one but it’s fine been used to it for a while. In floods of tears
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • Orchid059Orchid059 Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 390 Listening Ear
    Hi @Rose113 just wanted to check in with you to see how you are doing <3
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