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ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,793 The Mix Elder
in Health & Wellbeing
The past week why did I find it really hard and why won't ppl listen?
Crazy mad insane

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  • eylaheylah Posts: 9,215 Supreme Poster
    sometimes we have harder days then others bc things might happen or we just tired in ourselves that can make days more tiring then other days. ppl might not understand how we feel bc they might not have experienced what we have been through which they might not be able to understand what you feeling atm. we are here for you ellie <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,793 The Mix Elder
    I say 'I need to tlk to someone' I get the response of 'sorry, we're really busy'
    r they really busy? Or don't ppl want ppl to hav problems? Ppl related to me like my mum, nearly whaled in the dr's wen she couldn't get an appointment for me which was upsetting to hear
    Crazy mad insane
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,793 The Mix Elder
    @eylah do ppl h8 ppl who they care for having mental health problems?
    Crazy mad insane
  • Former MemberFormer Member Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 197 Trailblazer
    Hey @ellie2000 ,
    Dealing with mental health problems can be very hard for both the person suffering and their caregiver, however every person, no matter their situation, is deserving of kindness and sympathy. In my experience, I have rarely observed hatred on the part of the caregiver towards someone they care for. Is there a particular reason why you are thinking about this question?
    We are always here for you, let us know how you're doing <3
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,793 The Mix Elder
    @eylah @genderless_fungi I live in a complex tht used to deal mental health but since they have changed manager. No-one listens to ur venting and the website is false advertising. They're lazy toerags. I used to vent straight to the managers email, but he wrote 'r u happy' which made me think about life. Was he allowed to do tht?
    I wrote about wat I observed and how they could improve.
    Wat is a 'service user'?I get annoyed wen tht term get brought up. To me tht term mean I'm nothing
    Crazy mad insane
  • eylaheylah Posts: 9,215 Supreme Poster
    ellie2000 wrote: »
    @eylah @genderless_fungi I live in a complex tht used to deal mental health but since they have changed manager. No-one listens to ur venting and the website is false advertising. They're lazy toerags. I used to vent straight to the managers email, but he wrote 'r u happy' which made me think about life. Was he allowed to do tht?
    I wrote about wat I observed and how they could improve.
    Wat is a 'service user'?I get annoyed wen tht term get brought up. To me tht term mean I'm nothing

    im not really sure sry ellie :/. sending hugs 🫂
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
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