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I need some advice on how to stop Self Harming

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 2 Newbie
edited April 2019 in Health & Wellbeing
Hi i need some advice on how to stop Self Harming

Post edited by Aoife on

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 2 Newbie
    cool

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,937 Extreme Poster
    edited September 2024
    Hey @Past User <3 Welcome to the boards mate.

    I'm really sorry to hear that you're self-harming. Do you know what your feelings behind self-harming are (no pressure)? I think one of the best ways to deal with these problems, is to tackle them by the roots. For example, maybe you get overwhelmed, and self-harm has a calming effect to you. We're here if you'd like to talk some more about stuff <3

    There's many ways that people try to cope with and replace self-harm. To name just a couple:
    • Draw a butterfly where you want to harm. Choose something you care about that it represents, name it after a loved one... Just make it special to you. This can help some people because they won't want to hurt the butterfly.
    • Or you could draw on your skin in itself. I find doing that calming.
    • Snap a rubber band against your skin - to cause pain, but not any damage.

    It's positive that you want to stop doing this, and I'm wishing you all the best <3
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  • AoifeAoife Posts: 3,222 Boards Guru
    edited September 2024
    Welcome to the boards @Past User it's lovely to have you here!

    I've just moved your thread over to our Health and Wellbeing section as it fits a bit better here and will hopefully be seen my more people. I've also changed your thread title for you too :) 

    Kathleen have given some excellent advice already. Just to echo what she's said, it's so positive that you're reaching out for support. I'm really glad you found The Mix and I hope we can help support you through this. 

    We have an article on our website about self-harm coping tips and distractions which you find helpful to read through. Have you tried any coping tips that Kathleen has suggested or any mentioned in this article before?

    Hope you're doing okay <3
    Post edited by TheMix on
    Maybe somethings don't get better, but we do. We get stronger. We learn to live with our situations as messy and ugly as they are. We fix what we can and we adapt to what we can't. Maybe some of us will never fully be okay, but at least we're here. We're still trying. We're doing the best we can. That's worth celebrating too ❤
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,758 Skive's The Limit
    Welcome Helen

    have you tried the app Calm Harm. ? https://calmharm.co.uk/ It may be helpful. Lots of things work differently for others. Theres always a reason for self harming and while coping skills help - they dont get rid of the reason. 
    We are here to listen if you wanna talk about whats going on? 

    ~Probably dead now
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