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So my relatively new gf has a kink...
Former Member
Posts: 17,476 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hey all,
My girlfriend of eight months just revealed to me that she fantasized about bondage, reads the erotica on the subject and watched videos in the past etc etc. She also alluded to trying this in the bedroom in the future. As she has JUST revealed this information to me we have not discussed much other than she would like me to have full control and she wants to feel "powerless" Now let me be clear, I have strong feelings for this woman and have every intention of continuing this relationship for a long time and in a healthy manner. Any other folks here know of further resources either here or elsewhere? To be specific I am looking for information to help me place her in a bondage/master scenario while fully maintaining her safety and integrity. Thanks for any/all who help, all advice is welcome!
My girlfriend of eight months just revealed to me that she fantasized about bondage, reads the erotica on the subject and watched videos in the past etc etc. She also alluded to trying this in the bedroom in the future. As she has JUST revealed this information to me we have not discussed much other than she would like me to have full control and she wants to feel "powerless" Now let me be clear, I have strong feelings for this woman and have every intention of continuing this relationship for a long time and in a healthy manner. Any other folks here know of further resources either here or elsewhere? To be specific I am looking for information to help me place her in a bondage/master scenario while fully maintaining her safety and integrity. Thanks for any/all who help, all advice is welcome!
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Keeping the line of communication open is certainly the way forward, perhaps making plans and researching together so that you both feel comfortable with trying this out. It's important to spend some time working out what you feel okay with and where your limits are.
We have some good advice here on The Mix in terms of getting started which would be worth a read: http://www.themix.org.uk/sex-and-relationships/having-sex/bondage-for-beginners-3925.html
Let us know how you're getting on