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girls: how often do you orgasm during sex?
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i was just wondering... cos i'm sure i heard that not many women actually cum during sex unless they're stimulated around the clit area, is this true for most people on here??
cos i feel bad sometimes when i have sex, my bf cums and i don't, it's not that it's not nice, just not enough!!! if that makes sense...
was jus wondering whether i should tell him to do more than just stick it in lol
xxx
cos i feel bad sometimes when i have sex, my bf cums and i don't, it's not that it's not nice, just not enough!!! if that makes sense...
was jus wondering whether i should tell him to do more than just stick it in lol
xxx
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My girlfriends clit is very sensitive to direct stimulation and tickles too much!
The reason that I knew what she liked was simple communication. I asked her if it felt nice. If she said 'not really' I tried something else. If she said nothing and just groaned into the pillow I knew I was doing something right. And, after a few times of 'asking' I stopped asking and just gauged her reaction.
It's simple communication guys
But- as on point with the question- most girls seldom orgasm through sex, I would bet usually due to lack of foreplay. Just let him go down on you till you are nearly there, then he can slip inside you. Once you have done that and become comfortable with it, try longer periods of penetration
I can cum without my clit being directly stimulated but its too much hard work, much easy to stimulate myself! or through oral. I cum every time, as even if my bf cums before me durin intercourse we make sure im staisfied after. Unless its just a quickie and I dont manage to and we dont have time...ya know what i mean!
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Pretty much always works for me, and my boyfriend loves to see it too :razz:
I think it was a comfort thing though as I've done it several times with my current boyfriend and he's been the first person to make me cum! I think once I just let go, its ok and I'm over the mental block or something... I can't do it just through penetration though - I need stimulation too!
We have cum together a couple of times before and its such a good feeling!
Best positions are with her on top, me sitting on edge of bed with her sitting facing me, legs wrapped round me works best of all. In fact sometimes she comes so much she has to stop.
We are both in our late 30`s and have both been married so weve had time to find out what works. It also helps that now at 39 Im more than a 5minute wonder if you know what I mean.
I believe all ladies are capable, its just about communication and experimentation. A long term partner is always going to be an advantage.
My ex bf always used to touch it for me, erm just felt like telling you that.
I agree with this, although tis not everytime with him. But it is a very nice experience. It was very close to coming at the same time the other day....
it depend what we're doing...up my ass i orgasm quite a lot, normal penetration - it depends and oral - pretty much all the time.
Nuff Said :cool:
(fed my ego no end
normally 1-2 times during just a quickie and yesterday i think it was she came in less than 5 min's with oral... how i love my tongue bar!
i must admit... its so different to have sex with someone you just "click" with.. everything is different and it works just so much better!
anyone else agree?
Tis the secret to good sex! The more you are at one with someone the better, communication makes a HUGE difference.