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Coworker stuck up

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So on the salesfloor at work, a coworker initiated a conversation with me. That was at a big box retailer that sells general merchandise and groceries btw.
Her: is anyone making coffee? I could smell it.
Me: idk. I don't see anyone making it. It could be just the beans.
Her: well, it's not a constant smell. Just on and off.
Me: oh! well, if it isn't CONSTANT smell, then they're NOT making coffee.
She looked at me weird. Ever since then, she never talked to me again. Is she stuck up or did I say something wrong? Won't even engage when I talk to her
Her: is anyone making coffee? I could smell it.
Me: idk. I don't see anyone making it. It could be just the beans.
Her: well, it's not a constant smell. Just on and off.
Me: oh! well, if it isn't CONSTANT smell, then they're NOT making coffee.
She looked at me weird. Ever since then, she never talked to me again. Is she stuck up or did I say something wrong? Won't even engage when I talk to her
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I didn't know at the time. Should I apologize to her?
Because maybe it was seen wrong in their eyes, and maybe not yours!? I totes agree with Butterfly though, apologize, and offer to make her a coffee!