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I'm not happy.
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Have you ever felt like you thought you were happy but on the inside you truly truly are lonely. I don't really understand why I feel this way , I have friends I, I have family who are sometimes helping but I can't seem to shake this unhappiness deep inside. Maybe it's because I'm still single or maybe it's because of the fb post of people happy and doing things while I'm at home slowly waiting to die. It's not like these feelings just started happening either it's been about for the last 4 months. It's awful to know I've changed from being so happy and making the best out of any situation and staying optimistic to turning into a lonely girl with a bunch of friends that never help when you need it but when they need it I'm ALL ears . It sucks , I need help ....I don't even know what it's like to be truly happy anymore. 😧
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Sorry to hear ur unhappy
Have u tryed to write down how u feeling and giving it someone u trust
Sometimes I find it help full
*writeing down my feelings on a spidergram
*drawing u or a sad face and how u feeling
Then scrowing it up and put it in the bin
Here some links
http://www.nhs.uk/conditions/stress-anxiety-depression/pages/feel-better-and-happy.aspx
Can I ask u in school/collage/work
Keep postinmg
We're always here to listen *hug*
My friends as I previously mentioned ... are not helpful but when they need help I'm always there. If I tell my friends my problems they either don't care to listen or say something like "sorry" and go back to normal conversation when I'm obviously not in the mood. One of my friends has me as "moody judy" in there phone for me of course it's comical to him but not to me it really let's me know no one's listening or caring so all I have left is the Internet for comfort. Not my so called "best friends" 😩
Have u thought having counselloring not saying u cont get help here at all
Are there any teachers you feel able to talk to? School nurse? *hug*
(Also my phone dropped and cracked today so I really feel awful)
I totally get where you're coming from. Sometimes you can be surrounded by people but still feel lonely. And it sucks. But the good news is there's things you can do to stop yourself from constantly feeling this way 😊
You said you have a bunch of friends, do you meet up with them and do fun stuff? Getting out of the house and being with people you really want to be with can help you feel less alone
Is there anything you really love doing? Or something you fancy starting? Joining clubs etc can help. Its also a good way of making friends. As is volunteering 😊
Finally, talking about your feeling can help you of load some of the emotions. Plus by making a thread like this you may see that your not alone in what your going through and other people may be going through similar experiences.
Hope you're okay?
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Do you think you'd be able to explain to them how you feel when they blame your parents? If so, it might help to give them a bit more of an understanding. I also wanted to mention that there's a confidentiality policy that can't actually be broken unless they think you or someone else are in quite serious and immediate danger *hug*