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i m worthless...
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if i am good for nothing... and can't help other people in their work so its mean i don't deserve to be loved.. 
my mother doesn't love me because she thinks i m useless.. i m dumb and stupid...
my mother doesn't love me because she thinks i m useless.. i m dumb and stupid... 0
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Firstly I am sure that isnt true. I am sure people love you. And everyone is good at something.
It sounds like your really struggling. You want to talk about things?
I am sure your mum doesnt think those things hun.
Keep posting. Stay strong.
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" So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
'' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
It's great to see you posting on the message boards and reaching out, well done
You also mentioned that you can't help other people so you don't deserve to be loved, not being able to support other people does not mean you don't deserve to be loved, it's about taking it one step at a time, but looking after yourself first. Have you looked at articles around Self esteem on TheSite.org, they have amazing articles there an amazing one on Low Self esteem! As well as one on Building self esteem.
It's taking it one step at a time though, keep reaching out to us,
Best wishes,
Angel
Hey mona,
Sorry that you're feeling so sad and worthless at the moment. I'm glad you decided to post, that's not a dumb or a stupid thing but a good way to get things off your chest and get some support
You mention helping people at work, can you explain a bit more about what you mean? It sounds like you're feeling under pressure to be successful in certain areas and feel that your mum won't love you if you aren't. Is that right?
It would be good to learn a bit more about what exactly has happened to make you feel this way. You might also find out article on boosting self esteem useful to read when you feel up to it: http://www.thesite.org/mental-health/body-image-and-self-esteem/building-self-esteem-5940.html
Hugs *hug*
Well done on posting out on the boards. It sounds like things are really tough for you at the moment. Do you have anyone who you can talk to about the way you feel? The site have some really good pages to look through so definitely look at the low self esteem one. Things can seem really tough when you think your not good enough and constantly compare yourselves for other. But you have done the right thing by coming here and we are all here to listen to you and help where we can.
*hug*
Doesnt sound like your friend is being supportive.
Have you told her how her saying those things to you is making you feel?
Stay strong.
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" So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
'' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
Hey Mona,
Well done for being able to post about how you're getting on
You said you used to share your feelings with a friend, close friends tend to overide fights, maybe you just need some air away from each other. What was the fight about? - Being called 'Insane' is never easy, but it does sound like reliancy had become an issue, so taking a break from each other might do you good. How would you feel about talking to your GP about what's going on, maybe they can help you with issues around self esteem, etc.
But remember Mona, it's taking it one step at a time, and at your pace, but were here for you, and you mentioned confidence being an issue, have you thought about joining clubs to enhance your confidence, etc? Maybe it's worth looking at volunteering in your area?
Best wishes,
Angel