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I could lose my little brother
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I took a week to visit my little brother, and see mum as she wanted to celebrate a belated birthday!
I've always been on guard when dad is about, and I understand a few people worry when I go down.
It's been a rough week of arguments and expecting the worst, and last night got me that I needed to talk to someone, so phoned my CAMHS worker in the morning.
She asked if she could phone social care, and let them know. I agreed and then gave deets over. I got off the phone and realised I could lose my little brother over this. Last time social care got involved, my family detested me and refused to talk to me...
What's saying they won't want me down any more? What if they stop me seeing my little brother? What if they hate me even more?
I feel pathetic for reporting it, or for even saying anything tbh. I can't lose him...
I've always been on guard when dad is about, and I understand a few people worry when I go down.
It's been a rough week of arguments and expecting the worst, and last night got me that I needed to talk to someone, so phoned my CAMHS worker in the morning.
She asked if she could phone social care, and let them know. I agreed and then gave deets over. I got off the phone and realised I could lose my little brother over this. Last time social care got involved, my family detested me and refused to talk to me...
What's saying they won't want me down any more? What if they stop me seeing my little brother? What if they hate me even more?
I feel pathetic for reporting it, or for even saying anything tbh. I can't lose him...
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Or did you mean your parents may stop you seeing him? Is he old enough to meet/visit you without your parents around?
Nope, he's only 5
She wants to phone them about the safety of the family. I used to be abused by my dad, so moved out but I come down to visit, to see my little brother. There's been arguments everyday since I've came down and I keep expecting him to flip out. My brother is like a clone of me, and I've already seen my dad treat him differently to the rest, and this morning I phoned my camhs worker to tell her I don't want to stay here tonight cos it's going to get worst and that my little brother looks like he's next in line...
I agreed to her phoning social care, but family can't know it was me who brought anything up
You could always do an anonymous tip off to NSPCC if you're really worried.
My family didn't speak to me, and I was hated.
If I lose my little brother, (I will chat to people to see what would happen) I don't have ANYONE. And that's what's making me panic and freak out.
If there have been problems in the past then it's likely that social services would be keeping an eye on the family anyway so your family may well not ever know that you've said anything.
It's not your fault, you're not the problem, your abusive shitcunt of a father is the problem. I don't have any experience of these situations myself but I know they suck. Whole families get sucked in.
Remember as well you always have Emma and myself to hang out with if you need a holiday and/or some support. You're not on your own.
Going home soon so I wont' be around him, then I'll have a wait for that text that goes ''we want nothing to do with you any more''.
Thank you ShyBoyx