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I have had a few sexual relationships and always avoided going down on a guy because...well... i haven't the faintest idea of what to do!
I have tried to use the internet for answers but it's useless.
What do i do with my tongue?
What's the best area on the penis to stimulate?
Please help and don't laugh
I have tried to use the internet for answers but it's useless.
What do i do with my tongue?
What's the best area on the penis to stimulate?
Please help and don't laugh
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And definitely no biting! haha
I've found TheSite.org's very own "factsheet" or oral sex (with regard to penises) here. There's also sex with a new partner and how to say no, just in case.
The most important thing though is to enjoy yourself. Explore and experiment a bit until you find how you like to do things. Ask him what he likes to begin with while you're new to it, but use that as guidelines rather than gospel. If he doesn't like something you do, he'll tell you. And try not to take that to heart - all it means is that that isn't working for him.
And like others have said read his reactions, what he responds more to, what he likes or is a bit unsure about, and there's definately no harm in asking him, does he want it faster, slower, harder etc
As a guy I completely disagree. The only time I respond, react or move is if the bird does something awkward. If not it's just like lay back and think of England.
pro tip: Suck, and avoid teeth. Apart from that you can't really go wrong.
Sometimes i open my eyes, and give her a nod. Or grab the back of her head/hair to speed things up. And maybe a groan when i'm finished :')
I'm joking with you! Cawr have a sense of humour
Then you're in the minority ime. Most of the guys I give head to react a LOT.
:yes: and it more fun for us to know that what we're doing is actually good
No, I don't. But I've sucked far more than you've got. And without fail they've all had some kinda reaction. Even just gasping, you can tell.
I'm not saying you're strange, you're just you. But we're going on our experience of more guys than just you. And in my experience, you're in a minority.
Also nobody is telling you how you should be given head. Just how we do it.
1. Is his penis in your mouth? If yes, you have nothing to worry about. He's happy. If no, put it in your mouth. He'll then be happy.
Marry me. Marry me Right NOW
Can i politely ask for you to stop calling me a minority.
Sounds like you are in a minority.
I know men and women react differently. But I've never had a woman stay quiet when I did a good job...
I react quite a lot, groaning and stroking hair. Why would I just lie there? It feels great.
FWIW if you're enjoying it than shows through a lot. Enthusiasm is really as important as technique. I like the back of the head being licked and I like my balls being gently stroked too. I think most men do but I can't speak for them ;-)
It sounds like a lot to think of but she reckons once you've got a rhythm you're laughing
Not at how little his cock is, of course.
I'm not saying it's a bad thing. Just that, from my (not insignificant) experience, there are very few men (none that I've found) who wouldn't react at all. So, yes, you're in a minority. Sorry.
You're taken
The knob/head - Can be VERY sensitive, so some guys like you to go really slow/gentle in this area - especially true if the guys is uncircumsised, so often just gentley licking the head rather than sucking they prefer. Others i've met like you to suck it like your sucking the blue raspberry flavouring out of a Slush Puppy.
The shaft - Some guys like you to hold it and squeeze it - some don't. Top Tip - if you feel him ready to come (you'll know in practice as you can 'feel' it) if you squeeze the base of the shaft you can hold him off a bit longer if you're not finished having your fun.
Bollocks - Some guys like theirs played with, some don't. If you do play/lick/suck his balls do it GENTLEY to start with. We're quite sensitive down there you know.
How you give a good blowjob is in your hands. 2nd pun intended. It's actually quite difficult to tell someone how to give someone else they don't know how to give a good blowjob. Try things out. If he moans/thrust/cums he likes it. If he screams/cries he doesn't. All the guys i've ever sucked off liked me looking at them while i did it. It's a man/dominace thing, but i like sucking cock so i let them think they're all dominant. Works for me.
I would say for a 1st timer, the best way would be for him to be sitting down or lying on his back on the bed. That puts you into a less prone/more control situation so if it's not going the way you want you can stop for a breather.
But above all the PAIR of you have to have fun/enjoy it. Don't do something you don't want to (like swallowing when he cums/deep throating) just to please him. If it becomes a routine of you doing a part of it you don't want to, then you won't want to suck his cock and that's gonna lead to problems.
Don't expect to be the next Linda Lovelace the 1st time. You'll learn, with time, what he likes, what he doesn't like, what you like and don't like and most importanly how to keep breathing with someone's cock in your mouth.
XxX
Either I'm doing it wrong or I've been out with emotionless pricks...I wonder which one it is?
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