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awkward night...
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Hi,
I'm new here and this is my first post, but basically I was wondering if I can get some advice?
This week I went out for my best friends birthday, and she had invited some of her guy mates. We all ended up going back to her place, and long story short I ended up sleeping with one of them in my best mates bed. anyway, when I woke up the next morning, I realised he was holding me and watching me sleep. Kind of strange.
Anyway, I realised that I rather liked him, I've added him on Facebook and messaged him about meeting up for a drink or something. I know he's read my message, Facebook told me so, but I haven't got a reply yet.
My problem is that a year and a half ago I got raped, and as a result I self harmed. I'm very conscious of my scars as they are really bad, but I've accepted them and find no difficulty in wearing short sleeves, as they are part of who I am. However, I'm worried that when he clocks them properly in daylight he'll want to know more, and I don't want to explain them. I was just wondering what people thought I should say?
I'm new here and this is my first post, but basically I was wondering if I can get some advice?
This week I went out for my best friends birthday, and she had invited some of her guy mates. We all ended up going back to her place, and long story short I ended up sleeping with one of them in my best mates bed. anyway, when I woke up the next morning, I realised he was holding me and watching me sleep. Kind of strange.
Anyway, I realised that I rather liked him, I've added him on Facebook and messaged him about meeting up for a drink or something. I know he's read my message, Facebook told me so, but I haven't got a reply yet.
My problem is that a year and a half ago I got raped, and as a result I self harmed. I'm very conscious of my scars as they are really bad, but I've accepted them and find no difficulty in wearing short sleeves, as they are part of who I am. However, I'm worried that when he clocks them properly in daylight he'll want to know more, and I don't want to explain them. I was just wondering what people thought I should say?
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