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What is worse? Not getting hard or a premature finish?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Just wondering what you girls think about the first time you are with a guy...
What would you prefer to happen out of these two situations?

1) The guy being unable to get completely hard, so things going no further than kissing/oral.

2) The guy eventually getting hard, but finishing after a minute or two, therefore having to return to oral?


It's happened to us all, I'm sure :)

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    premature finish, if he still was up for playing more after
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    SuzyCreamcheese wrote: »
    premature finish, if he still was up for playing more after

    ^ That.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yea probably premature finish.

    If he doesnt get hard at all you cant get anymore turned on, but once he's gotten all excited and then youre all excited cos of it and you're thinking 'yay this is fun!' then...... oh no :( May as well have not started in the first place
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lots of oral is always better! Always!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    But you cant give oral to a guy who isnt hard so you cant carry on (well you can but its shit)... unless he gives you oral, but i thought this question was about the cock?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You can give oral to a guy thats not hard, its not quite the same and a bit of ball tickling can often remedy it. But yes, if he goes soft then surely thats a really good point to switch around and go down on the girl...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Miss_Riot wrote: »
    You can give oral to a guy thats not hard, its not quite the same and a bit of ball tickling can often remedy it. But yes, if he goes soft then surely thats a really good point to switch around and go down on the girl...

    Yea i just wouldnt bother :yeees:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I guess it depends if they're going to repay the favour or not, and how much you really care about them...first time, if I really liked the guy I would. I wouldn't want him feeling bad cos these things happen!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oh no, i wouldnt be a bitch about it, and would make sure repay the favour another time :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've always thought that not getting it hard is worse. The replies here are surprising. If a man can't get it hard, he can focus on oral sex. But if he finishes early, then there goes his libido as well.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Premature definitely, because at least if you cant get it hard it would put pressure on the woman (am I not goo enough) premature is bad, though i guess at least someone wins in the physical sense!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i wouldnt be that bothered about premature ejaculation
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    are you a man or a woman though?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    BabyBloom wrote: »
    I've always thought that not getting it hard is worse. The replies here are surprising. If a man can't get it hard, he can focus on oral sex. But if he finishes early, then there goes his libido as well.

    I agree. I haven't found that most men want to keep on going once they've orgasmed.
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