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A Virgin who is a submissive and Needs advice.

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Hi. I'm a 31 year old virgin and I'm submissive with no experience except personality. I have very special needs where I would be solely dependent on my Master and I don't know where I should start looking for a Master and if I find one how will I know that they really can handle my needs. Please Help with any info you think might help me. thanks :confused::confused::confused:

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    **helen****helen** Deactivated Posts: 9,235 Supreme Poster
    Hi,
    Just wanted to point out that TheSite.org isn't the best place to find out exactly where to look for a sexual partner of this nature, but it's possible people might have relevant experiences to share that might help.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Also though it might not make much difference to the responses you haven't said if you are a man or a woman.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you might be better off somewhere like bondage.com for that sort of question, although obviously youre welcome to stick around here, but your question is quite specific to the sort of thing youd find more of at that site
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You male or female?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ha Ha. BDSM dating hits TheSite :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you're a virgin, how would you know if you're a submissive or not? :confused:

    Not related to the OP but I once joined a BDSM chat on IRC when a naive teen. Didn't know what it stood for and found my brother's ex-girlfriend's nick there. I'm still kinda scarred...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Jaloux wrote: »
    Not related to the OP but I once joined a BDSM chat on IRC when a naive teen. Didn't know what it stood for and found my brother's ex-girlfriend's nick there. I'm still kinda scarred...
    Nothing wrong with a bit of BDSM.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Jaloux wrote: »
    If you're a virgin, how would you know if you're a submissive or not? :confused:

    Not related to the OP but I once joined a BDSM chat on IRC when a naive teen. Didn't know what it stood for and found my brother's ex-girlfriend's nick there. I'm still kinda scarred...

    To be fair I dont think you need to have had sex to know what turns you on.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Louisek wrote: »
    To be fair I dont think you need to have had sex to know what turns you on.

    I'm not so sure.... I find different things exciting when I'm with someone else than I do when I'm imagining them on my own
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    But you still know what turns you on, at least you know what thoughts you have that turn you on, and the rest is gained by experience.
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