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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
So there is a guy I know that is a friends with benefits type of guy but sometimes he feels smaller and softer than other times and sometimes he falls out of me while we are doing it. Sometimes he has a big penis though and it feels harder. :blush: :yeees:
anyone know why??:eek2:

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sometimes it has more blood in it than others, when it does it's harder and bigger - that's how they work. As to why, that's harder to answer.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Could be to do with stress, how tired he is, what he's eaten that day.......
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    from Wikipedia

    Causes:
    • Drugs (anti-depressants (SSRIs) and nicotine are most common. A study entitled “Drug-induced male sexual dysfunction” concluded that of the 12 most commonly prescribed medications on the market today, 8 of those medications list impotence as a side effect of the drug.[citation needed][dated info] Other drugs such as alcohol, cocaine, and heroin negatively impact male sexual libido.)[citation needed]
    • Neurogenic Disorders (spinal cord and brain injuries, nerve disorders such as Parkinson's disease, Alzheimer's disease, multiple sclerosis, and stroke.)
    • Hormonal Disorders (pituitary gland tumor; low or abnormally high levels of the hormone testosterone).[citation needed]
    • Arterial Disorders (peripheral vascular disease, hypertension; reduced blood flow to the penis).[citation needed]
    • Venous leak[citation needed]
    • Cavernosal Disorders (Peyronie's disease.)
    • Psychological causes: performance anxiety, stress, mental disorders (clinical depression, schizophrenia, substance abuse, panic disorder, generalized anxiety disorder, personality disorders or traits), psychological problems, negative feelings.[not in citation given]
    • Surgery (radiation therapy, surgery of the colon, prostate, bladder, or rectum may damage the nerves and blood vessels involved in erection. Prostate and bladder cancer surgery often require removing tissue and nerves surrounding a tumor, which increases the risk for impotence.)
    • Aging. It is four times higher in men in their 60s than in men in their 40s.
    • Kidney failure
    • Lifestyle: alcohol and drugs, obesity, cigarette smoking (Incidence of impotence is approximately 85 percent higher in male smokers compared to non-smokers[not in citation given]., Smoking is a key cause of erectile dysfunction. Smoking causes impotence because it promotes arterial narrowing See also Tobacco and health. )
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Maybe because of the type of relationship you have he feels under pressure to perforn even when he is really not in the mood.
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