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Working as a Male Escort?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Anyone had any experiences - good or bad?

Would love to give it a shot don't know if I'd have the balls though!

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    SkiveSkive Posts: 15,286 Skive's The Limit
    Mate used to do it. Used to have a good craic, but also admited ending up in some pretty wierd situations.

    Used to get his end away a fair bit too. :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not to be flippant, but I could not imagine having to pay for sex. I would rather pleasure myself than stoop to that level. That's my opinion but everyone is different, just does not make sense to me when it is pretty easy for most women to get sex if they want it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I believe escorting is about more than just sex, it's about a date and making an image, or rather making people think of you in a certain light...

    Basically it's paying for a young guy to date you for the night and lie for you.. make it look like your dating a doctor or something. Or atleast thats my thoughts on it..
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    z0ma wrote: »
    Would love to give it a shot don't know if I'd have the balls though!

    Well, that's you scuppered then if she wishes to do more than hold hands and enjoy your company. ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Mr CW wrote: »
    I believe escorting is about more than just sex, it's about a date and making an image, or rather making people think of you in a certain light...

    Basically it's paying for a young guy to date you for the night and lie for you.. make it look like your dating a doctor or something. Or atleast thats my thoughts on it..

    If that's thew case this amkes more sense to me. Still something I would not ever do, but much easier for me to comprehend. thx.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Did you not watch that episode of Shameless? The guy made it look much fun! Although... he was just being paid for sex...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You would to watch out for the following:

    - Women who get attached to you
    - Health checks
    - Use of condoms
    - Advertising. Either by word of mouth or a website
    - Will your family/friends know?

    Prostitution is not illegal in the UK, but it is illegal to advertise openly for it.

    People of all walks of life pay for it though, and most likely just anybody looking for a quick time of fun.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    25% of paid for sex occurs between 2 men.

    how restrictive are you planning to be on your customer base?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    A friend of mine did it at uni and a fair few of his clients were male lecturers there. I imagine that if you weren't comfortable being with men then it could cause some problems.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Does anyone realise that this thread is like .. erm .. old? :)

    But seeing as we are here ... z0ma, what did you do about it in the end? :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Big Gay wrote: »
    25% of paid for sex occurs between 2 men.

    how restrictive are you planning to be on your customer base?

    There is just as big a market for women.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I imagine that if you weren't comfortable being with men then it could cause some problems.

    That's not true at all. There's a difference between a male escort and a gay male escort. You just have to be direct and up front about the kind of services you provide.

    The majority of women who use male escorts are usually older (40+), wealthy women who want the companionship as well as the sex. Do the research, if you delve deep enough, you can find the facts. There are plenty of blogs and books written by male escorts and their experiences. Some are bullshit, who just want a book deal, but they're relatively easy to distinguish from the real ones.

    Be prepared to meet women who aren't the kind of women you'd usually prefer to date. You're providing a service, and being a male escort isn't as easy as you might think.

    Also, pay your taxes.:razz:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    escort

    im 31 and been single for 3 years im thinking about hiring a escort not for sex just for hugs and company i have mates but i want someone 2 cuddle up 2,i am self employed and have my own house i find it difficult 2 have a relationship as i can be away from home for long periods of time...any ideas anyone or where i can hire someone without sex...male or female will do.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    newneil wrote: »
    im 31 and been single for 3 years im thinking about hiring a escort not for sex just for hugs and company i have mates but i want someone 2 cuddle up 2,i am self employed and have my own house i find it difficult 2 have a relationship as i can be away from home for long periods of time...any ideas anyone or where i can hire someone without sex...male or female will do.

    You'll feel unfulfilled in the long run if you pay for intimacy.

    Paying for sex is fine IMO, since it's just sex and in itself means nothing.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    newneil wrote: »
    im 31 and been single for 3 years im thinking about hiring a escort not for sex just for hugs and company i have mates but i want someone 2 cuddle up 2,i am self employed and have my own house i find it difficult 2 have a relationship as i can be away from home for long periods of time...any ideas anyone or where i can hire someone without sex...male or female will do.
    If you're just looking for hugs, get a sign saying "free hugs" and stand in a town/city centre. It's a lot cheaper.
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