If you need urgent support, call 999 or go to your nearest A&E. To contact our Crisis Messenger (open 24/7) text THEMIX to 85258.
Options
I'm 21...she's 16...
Former Member
Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Is it wrong?
0
This discussion has been closed.
Comments
You won't get any definite answers from us, because we don't know the circumstances well enough. If you're worried enough to post about it, well that sounds like you're a conscientious sort of guy, which is great. You know better than us her level of emotional maturity, and only you can decide if it's wrong or not.
If the sister doesn't like it, then that's her problem. If it's true love then nothing should get in the way.
I don't think it's wrong that you're together, but it might be worth remembering that your girlfriend probably acts stronger and more mature with you and her friends than she does with her sister.
Only you and her will be able to tell.
My girlfriend is 23 and I'm 28, we've been together two years and it's mostly okay. However I at the age of 16 she was very immature and unable to do anything without her mother helping her, whereas I was 21 - just coming out of uni, living on my own and working etc... so it all depends on the situation
I'm not looking for anything serious and i dont expect it to last but it's not just sex. I genuinely enjoy being with her so it cant be a problem? Thing is im kind of a friend of her sister...
Mature for her age doesnt necessarily mean she is mature. Just be careful is all I say
If you and you gf are happy and compatible, you're already doing better than a lot of relationships ever manage.
I'm going to close this thread as it's relatively old now and so not sure the original poster is still looking for advice... Best to check date first before posting.