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My mind has two sides about my long term realationship
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Hey guys,
Need some insight here please.
I've been with my girlfriend for 2 and a half years, i'm 25 and she is 21.
She's a good looking girl and has a lovely personality.
When she is away from me I constantly have thoughts about perhaps being single, free and with other women. So much so that on a recent night out I came close to nearly kissing a girl from work. I sometime freak out that this is the person i'm going to be with for the rest of my life.
The thing is, when i'm with here I feel fine and don't have any doubts.
I don't know whats going on in my head, I sometimes think I should be single, but I'm scared that It's a big mistake and i'll regret it. Other times I think, what the hell am I doing she is an amazing girl. I would hate to see her with anyone else,
I've had these thoughts for around 1 year now.
My girlfriend gives me everything on a plate and does anything to please now, I wonder sometimes whether this is the reason I think of going elsewhere at times?:chin: .
My previous girlfriend treated me like shit and I loved her like mad, perhaps I need that challange in a realationship.
I've talked to my friends about it and they are useless for advice.:yeees:
Need some insight here please.
I've been with my girlfriend for 2 and a half years, i'm 25 and she is 21.
She's a good looking girl and has a lovely personality.
When she is away from me I constantly have thoughts about perhaps being single, free and with other women. So much so that on a recent night out I came close to nearly kissing a girl from work. I sometime freak out that this is the person i'm going to be with for the rest of my life.
The thing is, when i'm with here I feel fine and don't have any doubts.
I don't know whats going on in my head, I sometimes think I should be single, but I'm scared that It's a big mistake and i'll regret it. Other times I think, what the hell am I doing she is an amazing girl. I would hate to see her with anyone else,
I've had these thoughts for around 1 year now.
My girlfriend gives me everything on a plate and does anything to please now, I wonder sometimes whether this is the reason I think of going elsewhere at times?:chin: .
My previous girlfriend treated me like shit and I loved her like mad, perhaps I need that challange in a realationship.
I've talked to my friends about it and they are useless for advice.:yeees:
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