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A Man asked me for a drink...

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
This hasn't happened in years, but a guy from a bar asked me out for a drink... :confused:

Is that normal for London? lol

He seemed a bit intense... I mean like he was working and we talked for five minutes, then later he asked me what my perfect evening was... Kind of an odd question...

He probably does this to a lotta women I reckon...

Or maybe I am too untrusting?

Meh... I haven't had a date in years. :blush:

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Go for it I say
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Find out.

    He might do this to many woman, but tbh I think the apparently unlikely option is the more likely one: He found you just really interesting.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If he offers you a drink, make sure you are at the bar with him, seeing the drinks being served. That's me being paranoid though, with that date-rape drug that's been doing the rounds for the last decade.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    go for it :thumb: have fun
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :yes: Go for it :p
    Xx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    AH yes, i've seen this type of creature before.

    Sounds like the Urban Nice Man, not seen too often any more
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    He was probably going to tell you he met a nice Nigeria businessman who needs to a UK bank account to transfer $40,000 USD

    Nice men dont exist in London :razz:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Do it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Agree with all of the above (except the Nigerian business man bit)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    worth a shot. Does he seem nice?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I didn't go in the end...

    I'm just not interested. My life is too busy atm and I am recovering from a bad winter...

    I just want time to be me.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You seemed from your first post to be quite intrigued by this, I think you just copped out ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yea. There was really nothing to lose and you said in another post you are bored with your life. If he's not the change you are hoping for you owe him nothing.

    I think you should have gone.
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