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Puffy from arousal

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Ok, so this is really quite embarassing to ask but I'd like someone to tell me its fine....

Guys.... what do you think when you see a woman is so aroused her clitoral area becomes really swollen and puffy?

I know its a natural thing, cant be helped etc but I was wondering if you get put off by it? I only ask because I do get really puffy and swollen when turned on and when in the middle of sex with my ex, he looked down and saw me and said 'woah'. I dont know if this is due to his inexperience (as he was) or what.

What do you think? :blush: :nervous: :blush: :nervous: :blush:

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've never noticed it in me...but I guess it's to do with a rush of blood into that area causing it to swell. As long as it's not painful, really tender or anything I wouldn't worry ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    As this is the look the "trout pout" is going for, I presume it is attractive. I can't say I've ever noticed it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The braver amongst you may wish to search for "pussy pumping"
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Big Gay wrote: »
    The braver amongst you may wish to search for "pussy pumping"

    Ok, woah!! Nowhere near as bad as that!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lexi99 wrote: »
    Ok, so this is really quite embarassing to ask but I'd like someone to tell me its fine....

    Guys.... what do you think when you see a woman is so aroused her clitoral area becomes really swollen and puffy?

    I know its a natural thing, cant be helped etc but I was wondering if you get put off by it? I only ask because I do get really puffy and swollen when turned on and when in the middle of sex with my ex, he looked down and saw me and said 'woah'. I dont know if this is due to his inexperience (as he was) or what.

    What do you think? :blush: :nervous: :blush: :nervous: :blush:

    I never really noticed, but to be frank, I'd love it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's totally normal and natural and show's everything is working properly down there, you are correct thou your ex was showing his inexperience and total lack of manners.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    cassidy04 wrote: »
    It's totally normal and natural and show's everything is working properly down there, you are correct thou your ex was showing his inexperience and total lack of manners.

    I know I was just curious.

    Just that one little comment from him made me really insecure bout it. I mean it cant have put him off cos he never said anything and we were still having sex months after but just shows how a teeny little comment can make you over think everything
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's all supposed to get puffy! Like, no one thinks it odd when a man gets an ereection, why should it be different for women?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This is my objection to lots of porn, you look at them and they don't look aroused, and if that's what most men are taking tips from... poor us. 'It's wet!" isn't good enough, a vag will get wet as a protective measure when expcting penetratio realarousa cues massive blod flw to the genitas just asit does for aman.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katralla wrote: »
    This is my objection to lots of porn, you look at them and they don't look aroused, and if that's what most men are taking tips from... poor us. 'It's wet!" isn't good enough, a vag will get wet as a protective measure when expcting penetratio realarousa cues massive blod flw to the genitas just asit does for aman.

    I know I know but it was just the way he reacted. I'm putting it down to inexperience on his part
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yup, inexperience. Next time, tell him you're puffy coz you're aroused, which means he's doing it right. Will turn what might be taken as a negative or shocked reaction into a good one.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    In defence of inexperienced men... "woah" isn't negative - at worst, I'd say surprise, but it may well have been an exclamation of appreciation.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Big Gay wrote: »
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    ha ha, self censorship, so funny. Can't remember what you wrote to start with though.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It might have been, I dont know, because we just carried on as normal and it wasnt ever brought up again. But like I say we had sex for months after so cant have been that bad
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katralla wrote: »
    ha ha, self censorship, so funny. Can't remember what you wrote to start with though.

    Oh me neither I cant remember :( I wanna know what it said
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't think it was bad, I did read it and think nothing of it...
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