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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
I'm losing my virginity tomorrow. I am sooooo nervous.

I'm 25 and she's 33!!

I just can't wait but I JUST HOPE that my you-know-what gets hard!!! lol

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    wheyyy
    grats mate
    just take ur time and enjoy it :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Try not to get too nervous otherwise neither of you will get anywhere. As curly said, go slow and focus on enjoying yourself, sure you'll be fine :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Have a great time :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Take some viagra :thumb:

    Get her to style your hair afterward :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Apparently nobody else thinks this thread is a bit strange then..? :eek2:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    icey wrote: »
    Apparently nobody else thinks this thread is a bit strange then..? :eek2:

    No, no I find it a little bit odd.... :eek2:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    icey wrote: »
    Apparently nobody else thinks this thread is a bit strange then..? :eek2:

    I'm with you.

    ..have fun I guess
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i don't think its strange. its nice to share good stuff that happens in ur life and look for advice, reassurance and encouragement :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oh no it's
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    icey wrote: »
    Apparently nobody else thinks this thread is a bit strange then..? :eek2:

    :yes: especially how this poster constantly posts about how hes always single and how to come across well on dating sites, this is happening fast isnt it!

    but have fun i suppose
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    FireyFirenze wrote: »
    :yes: especially how this poster constantly posts about how hes always single and how to come across well on dating sites, this is happening fast isnt it!

    Maybe hes been following everyones advice on how to come across well, and now the ladies are queuing up to meet this Romeo.

    Second thoughts maybe shes an escort. :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why not give him a bit of a break, clearly he is scared and nervous about the whole affair and people going on at him isn't helping, is it really our business to judge? clearly he is just looking for a good luck, have fun.

    Well Good luck, have fun and all that shizzle
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hellfire wrote: »
    Why not give him a bit of a break, clearly he is scared and nervous about the whole affair and people going on at him isn't helping, is it really our business to judge? clearly he is just looking for a good luck, have fun.

    Well Good luck, have fun and all that shizzle

    nobody was 'going on at him' or being mean, just saying they thought it was a bit strange. and note that nearly everybody did also say good luck.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Aw dont blame ya for posting about it, I agree with Hellfire, have fun!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If I was on a promise, I'd want to tell everyone about it. I probably wouldn't but I'd want to.

    Hope it goes well, but please do be safe. Most important though, I'd recommend that you concentrate on having a fun time, not on ticking any particular boxes.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    man, did your online profile on that dating site really work? wow, the more you know.

    /e: don't think it's weird. Well he's 25 and has a prospect for some nookie. Who wouldn't grab that chance? She might be a whale and/or offer you one of her condoms which she poked tiny holes through, but hey ho. Some of you crybabies already whinge when they've been single for 2 months.

    Do it, man.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    looks like i'm not going because i'm tired and nervous and scared.

    sent him a message saying that i'll meet them during the day.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Mr.Ferrari09 wrote: »
    looks like i'm not going because i'm tired and nervous and scared.

    sent him a message saying that i'll meet them during the day.
    It doesnt like the best way to lose it to be honest mate, just wait it out, you'll find someone and it'll be a much better experience than meeting some seedy couple.
    Being a virgin is honestly not a big deal, its not as if anything changes once you've had sex, people treat you exactly the same, you'll still get the same breaks with the opposite sex etc and you wont just turn into some lothario overnight or anything.


    But if you're that desperate to lose your virginity then i suggest you take somebody elses advice in your other thread who said to go out to your local meet market club with some friends and just try your luck there, eventually you will get lucky, probably
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Mr.Ferrari09 wrote: »
    looks like i'm not going because i'm tired and nervous and scared.

    sent him a message saying that i'll meet them during the day.

    you sent *him* a message?

    have i missed something or is that just a typo?

    either way get in there mate - well deserved.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    grahaminneed wrote: »
    you sent *him* a message?

    have i missed something or is that just a typo?

    either way get in there mate - well deserved.

    same!

    but good luck man :) what ever happens....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    grahaminneed wrote: »
    you sent *him* a message?

    have i missed something or is that just a typo?

    either way get in there mate - well deserved.

    It made sense to me. OP's friend has a 33 YO friend with benefits, and OP had been invited to have some fun. I'm not sure as to whether it would be a one-on-one, or a threesome, but OP hasn't had much (any?) contact with the lady in question. So, he sent his friend a message, calling off, and he's going to meet the two of them socially first.

    Sounds good to me.
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    **helen****helen** Deactivated Posts: 9,235 Supreme Poster
    Big Gay wrote: »
    It made sense to me. OP's friend has a 33 YO friend with benefits, and OP had been invited to have some fun. I'm not sure as to whether it would be a one-on-one, or a threesome, but OP hasn't had much (any?) contact with the lady in question. So, he sent his friend a message, calling off, and he's going to meet the two of them socially first.

    Sounds good to me.

    :yes:
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