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Argh! Bf's and ex's.
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Right so here's the story. Two years ago I began a relationship with a new friend at uni, things started with a bit of peer pressure so I always have thought a few more months to get to know him and things would be different (in a good way!).
I really enjoyed that time although we ended up arguing and decided to split a few months later. We remained great friends and currently live with him and two other housemates. But at the back of my mind I am always thinking "What if the relationship worked?" He also understands me which is something very few people do.
Anyways, I have a boyfriend with whom I with currently, and I'm not sure how it's going. I'm constantly stressed and busy from uni, so seeing him sometimes seems like a chore I found it hard last night and visited the ex above. He gave me a huge cuddle and just held me in his arms, told me it'd be ok, which I needed,and I ended up staying the night in his bed (with pyjamas on don't read into it!).
Basically I guess my point is what the hell do I do? do you think my thoughts for him will go away?
Argh?!
I really enjoyed that time although we ended up arguing and decided to split a few months later. We remained great friends and currently live with him and two other housemates. But at the back of my mind I am always thinking "What if the relationship worked?" He also understands me which is something very few people do.
Anyways, I have a boyfriend with whom I with currently, and I'm not sure how it's going. I'm constantly stressed and busy from uni, so seeing him sometimes seems like a chore I found it hard last night and visited the ex above. He gave me a huge cuddle and just held me in his arms, told me it'd be ok, which I needed,and I ended up staying the night in his bed (with pyjamas on don't read into it!).
Basically I guess my point is what the hell do I do? do you think my thoughts for him will go away?
Argh?!
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I'm uberly confused!