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Is it possible..
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to be able to keep a strong friendship?
During the summer we started MSN'ing/Facebook/texting a lot and what not. It's been really nice up to date and such, but I was wondering if it was possible to be able to maintain this kind of friendship.
Starting September I'll be in college and my friend'll be in their last year of high school.
I definitely want the friendship to stay strong and continue like so, and I think my friend does as well, but do you guys think that it's possible to keep a strong friendship for a long time/forever?
Thanks.
During the summer we started MSN'ing/Facebook/texting a lot and what not. It's been really nice up to date and such, but I was wondering if it was possible to be able to maintain this kind of friendship.
Starting September I'll be in college and my friend'll be in their last year of high school.
I definitely want the friendship to stay strong and continue like so, and I think my friend does as well, but do you guys think that it's possible to keep a strong friendship for a long time/forever?
Thanks.
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And in the end, as long as I keep it going the way it is, and try to hang out in person from time to time and it should be okay?
And in the end, as long as I keep it going the way it is(commuting on facebook, texting, msn from time to time, etc), and try to hang out in person from time to time and it should be okay?
C-A x
I asked if we could still be close friends and she said "I'm sure we'll be fine" and she said earlier that it was all too sudden. Anyway, I don't like it. I'm happy I confessed, but I'm sad I lost a good friend.
What should I do? Do you guys think it's disappearing - Our close friendship, that is.
Are you male or female, by the way?
However, I did realize something. I don't like her in the way a guy and girl do. I like her as a best friend. She was a person I could always open up to, and she'd be honest with me, that is why I felt that I could tell her. I honestly thought that maybe that I did like her, but it turns out I was just infatuated and I could care less whether she said yes or no. I'm more worried about my friendship with her.
The reason I told her is because I was like "Do you think we'll always be close friends" and she was like "I don't believe in this forever bullshit amongst friends and bullshit, I don't know what'll happen when i enter university. We'll be miles apart from each other. It will be tough, but I will try to keep in touch. But I do want you to know that I'll be here[in person] as long as I'm alive though my body may be somewhere else.". This scared me and I panicked. I figured that if i told her something that would usually take a lot of courage would make her appreciate my honesty and the friendship even more. But, I worded it wrong. I was going to explain, but by then she had already thought that I liked her and wanted a relationship.
Not that I don't. She's a wonderful person, she's definitely a dream girl, but she's not the one I'd want to spend time with. I like her as the sibling I never had and that is why I was so scared when she said those words. I cherish my friendships so much that I would rather die than see this one fade [Not literally die, though].
and I'm a guy.
"Hey. Telling me took a lot of courage so I just wanted to say thanks. bviously it'd be rude to just leave you hanging after something this big. I'm not mad, but I'm going to be honest -- everything is hella awkward now. It'll be difficult to refer to you as nickname1 or say "ily" cause now I know that you're not interpreting the way I mean for it to sound. Don't feel bad.Feelings are feelings."
I told her what happened. And I honestly hope she believes me because the fact that I'm losing her as a friend is making me sad.