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am i just bein stupid???
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basically, i think im just being stupid and i no this but i absolutly hate it wen my fella watches porn! i mean he only watches it wen iv gone bed occasionally but i hate knowin that while im lying in bed, he's gettin his jollies off 2 porn! a few weeks ago, he got a new fone n started downloading piccys on it, n im sure u can guess wot they wer,! i feel jealous n i hate it! i no im bein stupid about it but does any1 else feel this way about their fella???????:mad:
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I don't think you are. There's lots of threads about people's partners watching porn but yours is a bit different. I'd be pissed off if my partner was downsatirs having a wank when they could be having sex with me.
Sitting downstairs making small, shiny maps of the Phillipines on your best draylon while you're upsatirs wide awake is pretty shit and insensitive. You need to talk to him about it, he may not realise it's a problem or that he's doing anything wrong.
Do you have a good sex life ? Are you wanting while he's doing his messy cartography ?
i hope u manage to sort it out
But it's pretty normal behaviour I think. It doesn't mean he wants to be with these other people rather than you, but it's just an easier way for him to have his 'fun' with visuals to look at. I guess either just try to look at it differently or talk to him about it. If he knows you are not happy with it he may at least become a little more discreet with it!
Na he only eva watches it wen he thinks im asleep or if im out the house shoppin, it just bothers me that we hav a great sex life wen he tears his asre away rom the computer, but ther r times wen he stays on it 4so long that i finally giv in n go 2bed, i no he's watchin it coz the next mornin, all the recent documents hav gone from the computer and so has the history. iv confronted him about it so many times and his response is, oh its just a guy thing and he only deletes it coz accidentally he left evidence of it on there ages ago n i confronted him about it! its not that often he does it but it just really annoys me! also wen i asked him y he doesnt just come up n hav sex wit me, his response is... i dont wana wake u lol. plus his agrument about havin naked piccys on his fone is, and i love this excuse lol..... his balls fill up at times n u hav2 empty em and havin naked piccies helps as he has summit 2wank 2!!! some1 plz tell me that im not just goin off my rocker by bein annoyed wit this, i mean how dare he tell his own fiance that kinda thing!:mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :banghead:
Take some dirty pics of yourself, so he can wank over them too.
My phones full of my GF's vids / pics she sent, and quite a few of the two of us together as well, easy access if wanting a quick ham shank.
Yeah, and then when you break up, he can post them on facebook, and you can move to a new city and assume a new identity.
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If he's doing it instead of doing the real deal, then your relationship has problems and you need to work out what you can do about them.
I like looking at porn as much as the next guy, but not when I could be having real sex instead.
I've got videos and pictures of plenty of exes in my old phones, not once have I even shown them to mates let alone post them on the internet, and some of the girls have been complete physcho fuckwits who deserved to be bluetooth whores!
I was basically being flippant, not serious....but seriously dude, that's a terrible argument. No one thinks the person they are engaged to is going to turn out to be a nob, yet some of them do. Therefore some people are currently engaged to nobs, and just don't know it yet. No one would send naked pictures of themselves to their boyfriend if they thought he was going to show them to his mates/football team/office/the whole world via the internet, yet it happens sometimes. Only way to be sure it won't? Don't send pictures of yourself to anyone, no matter how much you trust them, if you would later regret them coming into the public domain.