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my mum died a month ago and i cant cope with it all i loved her so much and the pain is so unberable i cant live without her and dont want to carr yon
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Aww mate I'm so sorry for your loss. I really feel for you.
It's a good sign that you have talked about it though. But seriously man you got to keep going.
I know how it is because my mate lost her mum not that long ago and she was really affected by it.
I know you won't believe me when I say this but it honestly does get better. Just hang in there a little longer.
Haven't you got any friends or family to live for?
There's gonna be someone out there who is worth living for. Because I know there will be someone out there who would be devastated if you died.
You should really talk to someone about how you are feeling. It will help.
Take care of yourself. x Andy
I'm very sorry for your loss, the death of your mother is a sad, terrible thing and I'm sure we all understand how difficult it must be for you.
It's totally normal to be hurting about your loss. So, it's good to see you posting here about how you feel - talking about the pain you are in and your suicidal feelings can hopefully help you come to terms with them, as well as give us a chance to suggest some places that might be able to help.
Have you been able to talk to anyone else about the pain you are feeling, any other family members who are experiencing the same bereavement perhaps? Or maybe friends who you could confide to? We're here for you to talk about you feel, but they can help as well.
Without knowing any specific details of your situation, or where you, I don't want to bombard you with a big list of services so if it's okay I'll just point you in the direction of couple.
The first is Samaritans - you can call on 08457 90 90 90 or email jo@samaritans.org. As well as a chance to talk about how you feel around sucicide they can also speak to you about anything that's going on - especially the pain you're in right now.
For a service that can help that's focused on bereavement and the specific issues and pain that can create please think about contacting Cruse - who specialise in helping people find a way to deal with the pain of a loved one's death. You can phone them on 0844 477 9400 or email helpline@cruse.org.uk
But please do post again to let us know how you are doing and if you'd like a space to talk about your mother, whether that's to talk about her death or her life, then please feel free to do that here.
I've just moved your thread to health as well, so that you can get as much help from us and the community as possible.