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Do you think this first date went well?
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Let me get into the scenario without making this TOO long for those of you who hate reading long long reads.
I'm a 27 year old male the lady in question is a 30 year old woman. We met online and after a few phone calls and some texting decided to meet. So i met her for dinner at a local cafe, She kept moving her hair up in a ponytail then down long the entire time which i could not tell if this was nervousness in a good way or bad. None the less we talked heavily about our families and a bit of our past dating histories. Kept each other laughing a good amount too. We sat down to eat about 7:00 PM we talked so long we did not actually leave till 9 PM. I was not sure really how to take it precisely so i went for a hug at the end of the night rather then opting to try for a kiss (Plus i am old fashioned anyways and like to wait till date#2 if there is one for that). So about 15 minutes after getting home i get a text message from her saying i forgot to say thank you for dinner thank you!. I responded it was my pleasure i will call you sometime this week. I got a response Cool it was good meeting you.
So....Opinions...women especially.
She seem into me?
Or not really?
I'm a 27 year old male the lady in question is a 30 year old woman. We met online and after a few phone calls and some texting decided to meet. So i met her for dinner at a local cafe, She kept moving her hair up in a ponytail then down long the entire time which i could not tell if this was nervousness in a good way or bad. None the less we talked heavily about our families and a bit of our past dating histories. Kept each other laughing a good amount too. We sat down to eat about 7:00 PM we talked so long we did not actually leave till 9 PM. I was not sure really how to take it precisely so i went for a hug at the end of the night rather then opting to try for a kiss (Plus i am old fashioned anyways and like to wait till date#2 if there is one for that). So about 15 minutes after getting home i get a text message from her saying i forgot to say thank you for dinner thank you!. I responded it was my pleasure i will call you sometime this week. I got a response Cool it was good meeting you.
So....Opinions...women especially.
She seem into me?
Or not really?
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I wouldn't take any notice of the hair thing- I get told I'm always playing with my hair but don't even notice I'm doing it. I don't think it means she was nervous- think some people find it abit flirtatious actually!
Agreed :yes:
Well done dude!
Make sure you follow up with 2nd date ideas - she sounds like a eager beaver