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Hey guys,
Had a really lovely date with a girl yesterday during the day. We had drinks and a really good chat, had a wee bit of hand holding towards the end too
We both left to go out with your mates in the end, she texted me later saying her mate was asking if I knew this guy who lives where I used to stay (took this is a good sign that she's been telling her mates?) and I texted her back when I was drunk saying I had a good time and I hoped she was OK.
She didn't reply to that one though! I know she was out on the piss so wasn't expecting a reply that night, but she didn't text me today either. I'm half thinking about texting her tomorrow asking her out to the pictures or something because we seemed to get on OK?
Just got a bit paranoid that she never text me today? :nervous:
Had a really lovely date with a girl yesterday during the day. We had drinks and a really good chat, had a wee bit of hand holding towards the end too
We both left to go out with your mates in the end, she texted me later saying her mate was asking if I knew this guy who lives where I used to stay (took this is a good sign that she's been telling her mates?) and I texted her back when I was drunk saying I had a good time and I hoped she was OK.
She didn't reply to that one though! I know she was out on the piss so wasn't expecting a reply that night, but she didn't text me today either. I'm half thinking about texting her tomorrow asking her out to the pictures or something because we seemed to get on OK?
Just got a bit paranoid that she never text me today? :nervous:
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Just go for it tomorrow, I say. If she doesn't bother that time, whatever then.
I think this could be called Spamming. Please don't. You will get banned.
Post something constructive or not at all. merci.
Agreed.
Sick of the face-less texting bollocks.
If she doesn't call you back she is obviously not interested, cut your losses and move on.
Don't ring loads of times and not leave a message because that looks overly keen.
It could be the that the text you sent did not indicate you were very interested....I would call her, if you speak to her tell her you would like to see her again the same if you get her voicemail. If you don't get either just ring her and after that leave the ball in her court.