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Girlfriend dumped me after below par sex!
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have been seeing a great girl for over a month, things were going well I thought...
We left it for about 5 weeks until having sex. This was mostly my idea, and partly out of respect, and partly becasue I was slightly nervous as it had been a while since I last had sex.
So we eventually got down to it. To try and ease my own nerves I made some humorous comments about how I was going to blow her away etc etc. Well, I didn't perform too fantastically it has to be said, but I wasn't disastrously bad - I managed about 3 minutes which isn't too bad considering over a year's abstinence beforehand! Anyway she was proper pissed off, gave me some horrible bitchy comments, and then dumped me.
Has she been unfair to me? I think so, becasue it takes a few goes to back back into the swing of things...it does for me anyway. Why couldn't she have been a bit more understanding?! I'm gutted because things were going really well and I thought she was a great girl
We left it for about 5 weeks until having sex. This was mostly my idea, and partly out of respect, and partly becasue I was slightly nervous as it had been a while since I last had sex.
So we eventually got down to it. To try and ease my own nerves I made some humorous comments about how I was going to blow her away etc etc. Well, I didn't perform too fantastically it has to be said, but I wasn't disastrously bad - I managed about 3 minutes which isn't too bad considering over a year's abstinence beforehand! Anyway she was proper pissed off, gave me some horrible bitchy comments, and then dumped me.
Has she been unfair to me? I think so, becasue it takes a few goes to back back into the swing of things...it does for me anyway. Why couldn't she have been a bit more understanding?! I'm gutted because things were going really well and I thought she was a great girl
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FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT!!
anyway, if this is true:
good riddance mate. She's not worth the dirt on your shoe. Don't fret over it and if you want to last longer next time, keep it slowly, and/or jack off an hour before sex.
Wooooaaaaah :shocking:
That may be the person but i hope not!. I came here becasue i'd seen it on her browser, looked like a good site. had no idea she'd be a member or post here though. shit.
OH NO! How will this tricky situation unfold!!! Please log out and log in with "lucyd" and let us know how this is going to continue. I'm sitting on needles.
LOL. I am not one of these!
Oh, and how old are you, by the way?
Well, i had put it down to absinence lack of practice. Previous girlfriends have been pretty understanding in the past, I thought it was pretty much taken for granted that it takes a couple of times to get back into your stride?!
hmm I'm early 20's, and reading that other thread...well it seems to be a different person... 40's? Nah!
that's like the paternity tests in the talk shows.
that made me giggle out loud :thumb:
Dayum, that guy's got some mean dancing skillz
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The .gif, not the Springer
ETA: Strubbles post made me laugh too I mean