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about to be dumped not quite sure how to deal with it?
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hi guys long story short been asking advice for 6 months but at the end of the day you cant make someone care for you, so im about to be dumped by my frst ever gf after 18 months , apparently shes doesnt feel the spark or whatever, anyways, im currently holding of the mental breakdown, something im reall good at, we both have exams and shes waiting till after themn so for now ive put it on the backburner fpor now. anyway to my real question? what do i do? in the past i was a bit of a pathetic emo i dealt with parents divorce being beaten by my dad etc by hurting myself and attempting suicide, but ive had counseling and have gotten to a point now where thoses arnt optons i know how selfish and lame they are. the crazy thing is i actually dont know what else to do, i know this sounds bzarre but how do you begin to get over your first gf , and 18 month relationship, where both of us have met all parents and i really wanted to marry her? obviouslty theres no ideal solution but litterlay im so lost right now any advice will do?
thanks guys i know you wont let me down
thanks guys i know you wont let me down
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^^Sound advice :yes:
Keep yourself busy and while you're bound to feel low, it will get better. You might find this useful to read too, some more do's and donts to help you get over it. Take care and good luck with your exams