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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If he has a girlfriend, I think you are out of order getting into things like this, especially if she is your friend.

    Avoid taking this further.

    Put yourself in her shoes - would you like it if your boyfriend and one of your friends were doing this?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    dont do it. It would be really low to do this to his girlfriend. Hes trying to cheat on her. You should have more self respect than that, and respect for his girlfriend who you say is your friend too.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    oops you're right,
    i won't do it
    i guess i just needed somebody to tell me it's wrong

    wow, looking back,
    i feel really bad for thinking about it in the first place :(
    i'm disgusted with myself to be honest

    thankyou x
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Does he even love his current girlfriend? You shouldn't feel disgusted, you like him, he's trowing the ball of string out and you want to play with it. Even though you know you can't. Talk to him about it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah i'll talk to him about it
    i think he'll understand, and feel a bit bad
    he's a really nice guy, i just don't think he'll have thought about it in this way

    thanks so much for the advice,
    i'm so glad i'm not going to go through with it
    maybe he'll respect me more for not doing it :)

    i've deleted the original post because i'm embarrassed about it, lol

    x
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think youve made the right choice :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :)
    people on here are so nice,
    i'll definitely use this forum next time i need advice

    and i'll do my best to help anyone else with a problem

    the relief is amazing ,hahaa :D
    x
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    JsTJsT Posts: 18,268 Skive's The Limit
    Definately the right choice made, he should know better frankly! :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i guess he should yeah

    i'll post here tonight letting you know what he says and all that

    :Dx
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