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Why am I so insecure?
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My luffly new boyfriend in case I forgot to mention him 
is a relatively good looking chap! He's into doing weights and will join the gym once he's got some money so will be toning up even further. On Monday night about 3 of my female friends said "Ooh he's quite fit isn't he" - something I'm not used to hearing because, lets be honest, my ex wasn't the most physically attractive man in the world (not that looks matter can I just add!).
I can't help feeling he'll turn round soon enough and say to himself..."What on earth am I doing with this fat lump! I can do so much better".
His new keenness for toning up/getting fitter HAS inspired me to crack on with WW which I've kinda neglected recently..but it doesn't stop me thinking I'm not good enough.
Argh...wheres the wet salmon required for a slap in times like these?!
is a relatively good looking chap! He's into doing weights and will join the gym once he's got some money so will be toning up even further. On Monday night about 3 of my female friends said "Ooh he's quite fit isn't he" - something I'm not used to hearing because, lets be honest, my ex wasn't the most physically attractive man in the world (not that looks matter can I just add!).I can't help feeling he'll turn round soon enough and say to himself..."What on earth am I doing with this fat lump! I can do so much better".
His new keenness for toning up/getting fitter HAS inspired me to crack on with WW which I've kinda neglected recently..but it doesn't stop me thinking I'm not good enough.
Argh...wheres the wet salmon required for a slap in times like these?!
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But, you have to remember that you're fit boyfriend is with you because he really likes you and because he thinks you're hot!! Which you so totally are so. It's hard sometimes but you're the one he's chosen to show off
If he ever did leave you for a 'hotter girl' then its his loss right?!
You are a good looking gal and yey your bf chose you! Just try and enjoy being with someone who is gorgeous.......thats what im trying to tell myself anyway lol
Not only is my girlfriend stunning she is so down to earth, cool sexy and friendly, i know for a fact she could pick up a guy in minutes. She has also just come out of a 5 year relationship so im up against that as well.
So you really are not alone on this one. I for one im going to try and enjoy my girls hotness as much as possible
Or his win
sorry, that probably didn't help
Well..you might feel like slapping yourself with a wet salmon.....but for thinking like this! common!
As many of the replies you've got so far, I agree...he is with you for a reason, not with someone else, so, chin up, realize you are the best girl in the world for him, and enjoy your relationship together!
Better yet, when your friends say something about how he looks, show off and say something like "isn't he good looking? and better yet he's mine!"
:thumb:
Meh, it still kind of bothers me, and yeah it can make you worry, espescially when she's going out with just her girlfriends and not you. But at the end of the day, it's me she's going home with...we love eachother and I know that I'm the only guy for her.
You need to believe this about your relationship too! I know it's not easy.