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Being let down gently/played?
Former Member
Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Rite,well been on and off with a girl for few months..
Talked on Sunday and she said that when she is with me,she finds it amazing and that she cant help but be affectionate and touchy feely with me. Im talking holding hands,kissing,cuddling etc etc..
But when we arent together,she says it feels like we shouldnt be together and that it wouldnt work. And therefore she doesnt want to pursue things.
But should we meet up,it would be like were a couple.
Im at a loss.
I really am struggling to understand what she means , I just dont get it.
Talked on Sunday and she said that when she is with me,she finds it amazing and that she cant help but be affectionate and touchy feely with me. Im talking holding hands,kissing,cuddling etc etc..
But when we arent together,she says it feels like we shouldnt be together and that it wouldnt work. And therefore she doesnt want to pursue things.
But should we meet up,it would be like were a couple.
Im at a loss.
I really am struggling to understand what she means , I just dont get it.
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leave her ass first.
You can still be her toy tho, which entertains her if she needs and vanishes into the drawer if she doesn't. Up to you.
If you can't beat em, join em!