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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
I got a new fella and want to blow his mind in the bedroom:naughty:

anyone have ay good postions that i could use. coz i only really know the basic ones lik missionary and on top and doggy which i hate!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The best advice I can give is simply use your imagination. Start with the basic positions that you know, then try changing those slightly. I'm sure, if this guy is as keen on you as you are on him, he'll have plenty of his own ideas!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    that japanese superman one
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    There's always Wikipedia....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lying in the spooning position is nice :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lying on your sides facing each other is really nice. Can take a little while to get used to not slipping out though.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Scary Monster wrote: »
    There's always Wikipedia....

    Or the adult wikipedia lol:

    http://www.wikiafterdark.com/index.php/WikiAfterDark
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    try doggy where girl lies on front instead, is much better! and maybe backwards cowgirl or him being off side of the bed etc. there are loads and if you can't think of them there are tonnes on the internet!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ShyBoy wrote: »
    that japanese superman one

    What japanese superman one?! Sounds interesting...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol I don't éven know, drunk post last night.

    But there is a weird japanese position I've seen on some porn blogs where the woman lays down, he penetrates her lying on top a la missionary, then rotates so his feet are near her face and has sex like that.

    It was the same blog that has clips of a japanese gameshow where they jump out of a van in the middle of town naked and start having sex in public, then after 30 seconds jump back in the van, so not completely serious ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    TBH There are only [something like] three sexual positions [him on top, her on top and rear entry] with the rest a variation on those...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    the way to blow someones mind in bed, is simply to really enjoy what you do. No individual position is better than others. Its just passion, enthusiasm and `je ne sais quoi` that makes it good
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    SuzyCreamcheese wrote: »
    the way to blow someones mind in bed, is simply to really enjoy what you do. No individual position is better than others. Its just passion, enthusiasm and `je ne sais quoi` that makes it good

    :yes: thats so true. you could do one of the most adventerous positions in the world but if you're not enjoying it/enthusiastic enough its still not gonna be good. best way is pure passion, even if it is just missionary postition or something. still fun :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    me and the boy used to do it loads of different ways and it was good but its amazing now we're so comfortable with each other, just slow and missionary is my fave. the closeness is what blows my mind.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    FireyFirenze wrote: »
    :yes: thats so true. you could do one of the most adventerous positions in the world but if you're not enjoying it/enthusiastic enough its still not gonna be good. best way is pure passion, even if it is just missionary postition or something. still fun :D
    :yes:.

    And no matter how much you fake it, they can ALWAYS tell if you're not enjoying it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My fella breathing in my ear turns me on so much Mmmmmmmm
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ShyBoy wrote: »
    lol I don't éven know, drunk post last night.

    But there is a weird japanese position I've seen on some porn blogs where the woman lays down, he penetrates her lying on top a la missionary, then rotates so his feet are near her face and has sex like that.

    :eek2:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    oh my god, so he skewers her?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    emilythestrange wrote: »
    :eek2:
    Oh! I've seen that. It's in the Ann Summers Pocket Kama Sutra :o. Looks really difficult and uncomfortable though, so there's no way we're ever gonna try it :no:.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Trying to work through the Karma Sutra is never that good an idea, or at least not with a new partner. Far too many things can go wrong.

    Just enjoy it. It's the best thing.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    kezia wrote: »
    me and the boy used to do it loads of different ways and it was good but its amazing now we're so comfortable with each other, just slow and missionary is my fave. the closeness is what blows my mind.

    Completely agree! :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah, and that one where you shag in the lotus position whilst on top of an elephant is really tricky to manoeuvre as well
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lotus
    elephant on top

    please explain..:D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    elephant on top! :no: :D :eek:

    squish!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This is coming from someone who is quite a bit older than you and who has been married for very close to 20 years. There are a lot of different things I could tell you to try, but really, those are for people who really love one another. There is no way I would do some of those things with some guy I just "really liked".
    That being said, the hottest thing you can do is to be really into it. Be some what aggressive in getting your orgasm, but let yourself just get caught up in the moment. If it feels good, try it. Nothing turns a man on more than a very sexually aroused woman. Let yourself be aroused, let yourself enjoy it, he will thank you for it.
    No matter how kinky you think it is, trust me, after so many years of marriage, there is very, very little I would consider kinky.

    Have fun.
    I forgot to add, tell him when you like something.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    the wheelbarrow on the hood of his car. :yum:
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