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advise me please!
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well, from my previous post, me and this girl I was seeing ended things on thursday..well she said she cant handle me nagging and being clingy etc anymore... (I had reasons and she has admitted they make sense etc etc)
anyways
Friday she text me and there was a lot of banter
Text her today and she said shes been thinking about me,but wont tell me what it is as its a secret!Been plenty of banter again and we been havin a good laugh.
I think the space im giving her is working..
Couple questions
1-If she wasnt generally interested in sorting stuff out,do you think she would have banter and tell me shes been thinking of me etc?
2-There is a one off opportunity this Friday for something which I know we will both love to do and would do if we were still seein each other. Was gonna maybe ask her if she wants to do it?
Would that be pushin it or not?Vibes im getting (hoping) seem positive,especially the banter we have been having and the texts we been sending.
anyways
Friday she text me and there was a lot of banter
Text her today and she said shes been thinking about me,but wont tell me what it is as its a secret!Been plenty of banter again and we been havin a good laugh.
I think the space im giving her is working..
Couple questions
1-If she wasnt generally interested in sorting stuff out,do you think she would have banter and tell me shes been thinking of me etc?
2-There is a one off opportunity this Friday for something which I know we will both love to do and would do if we were still seein each other. Was gonna maybe ask her if she wants to do it?
Would that be pushin it or not?Vibes im getting (hoping) seem positive,especially the banter we have been having and the texts we been sending.
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i appreciate yours but would like a females view
Asked her about friday and she says she would like to do it
Good stuff..
I reckon I annoyed her that much,rather than finish it completely,she just wanted space and wanted me to basically fuck off for a bit..
Given her the space...goin ok I think.
Know what not to do now