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BillieTheBot
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Okay so my girlfriend broke up with me coz i spent too much time on my pc (im an addict i know i want to stop) and we chatted and i promised with my hand on my heart i would cut down on my computer and be a good boyfriend
Didnt go well (oh its better if were just friends, she says)
wtf how can i act like im her friend when she means so much more?
So my friend who knows her well asks her why arent i worth another chance and any problem can be fixed just basically helping n she agreed to him that she would sort it out with me
when she finally started talking what did she say? "Theres no way on earth me and you will go out again" WTF IS ALL THAT ABOUT?
Bringing me n her up n basically rubbing it all in?
We barely argued in the 5 months we were together so why arent i worth another god damn chance, ive tryed everything, i just dont get why she cant give me a chance. God damn it!
(Before you ask yesterday she told my friend she still loved me to pieces)
Didnt go well (oh its better if were just friends, she says)
wtf how can i act like im her friend when she means so much more?
So my friend who knows her well asks her why arent i worth another chance and any problem can be fixed just basically helping n she agreed to him that she would sort it out with me
when she finally started talking what did she say? "Theres no way on earth me and you will go out again" WTF IS ALL THAT ABOUT?
Bringing me n her up n basically rubbing it all in?
We barely argued in the 5 months we were together so why arent i worth another god damn chance, ive tryed everything, i just dont get why she cant give me a chance. God damn it!
(Before you ask yesterday she told my friend she still loved me to pieces)
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I dont get why i dont get anothe chance if i ment so much to her, she apparenly liked me for 3 years and you'd think the feeling was strong but i guess its not.
Also to add: she always told me i was the best boyfriend i did everything right all that stuff so..its just confused me. ive decided to not speak to her because she's majorly pissed me off
Being around an addict who is constantly ditching you for something lame like games can be soul destroying. I wouldn't sacrifice my sanity for it no matter how nice the blokey is. It may well be that she genuinely likes you but it's a case of her being fed up and not wanting to give you a second chance because she knows you haven't changed. Especially if you've promised her to change and failed already.
Its a mess mate i know ive had tons of hassle of everybody already -.-
I cant really prove ive changed to her really coz i dont speak to her XD
I don't know how much time you spend on your PC but I spend more than average
As she's not speaking to you, I'd just call it a day really. Try and be friends if that's what she wants but if she doesn't want a relationship with you for whatever reason then that's the way it's gonna be. It's better that you know where you stand than worrying about hearing different sides of the story whilst trying to change your life for her. You're only 16, not married yet
Although if she's coming over and getting touchy-feely you really need to turn off the Halo or whatever
It sounds far fetched but i would spend alot less time on my PC it is a thing for myself aswell as her if she belives it or not. If not then good on myself isnt it:)?
End of the day least i can say i tried but im not too sure if shes sure on how she feels; not long ago she said "I would take you back and id love you even more but when we argue again you'd just flip and end it again" (wtf again? ive never done that once..)
And its not Halo for the record its counterstrike source hehe
my steam rating is eagle scream :cool:
you can't be as bad as the guys and gals who play WoW every day
But my plan is to just live my life and have fun
today she was watching me quite a bit in PE (she was sitting out as there was too many people and we all had to take turns) and she looked upset and i was happy all day so i dont know if that means anything?
Maybe shes upset that im finally moving on and its hit her? i dont know what do you guys think
Mine was eagle scream my steam rating (50 hours) now its 8.5 - cobra kai (20 hours)
Gone down over the past 3 weeks or so
Just a thought, she's not necessarily being that bitchy really.
I asked her today out of curiousity if shes okay and i basically said "why are you so depressed?" and she said "you know why"(meaning me n her) so i said something like " you should be happy like me im getting on with my life now im sick of being messed around" and then walked off n did my own thing. I dont know what shes thinking tbh but ive had enough shes really.
The major problem is she thinks everybody hates her when they dont n she just sticks to one friend named Rachel and my best friend(now ex best friend) Ryan likes Rachel so hes always with her, now my ex, Rachel and Ryan are all acting like Rachel because shes very influencial. To put it bluntly all the guys give her attention coz shes an utter slapper n they think its a free shag so he see's a chance in her so them 3 are always off on there own which i dont give a shit about. Thats whats complicated everything.
Why do you think shes so depressed over it? last night i knew she was going to talk to me because my friend who wanted me n her to get back together spoke to her the night before on MSN and she said basically she would think about it. So when i stayed back for coursework after school she sat me down and i was thinking "Oh she might give me a chance here" but what did i get?? "Graham im sorry but theres no way me and you are going to get back together" (WTF? totally broke my heart so i told her how i felt)
I said "Wow thats really heartless, i hope your happy you've just lost a genuine friend"
So thats it up to now. What should i do? get on with my life or still hold onto the hope i have to be with her?
I do think she is right for me not long ago every time she walked in the room or i saw her i just felt my heart pound and id just smile!! thats love isnt it? ive liked her for 3 years i dont want to let go though!!!!
(sorry for the long rant by the way and lack of punctuation if there is lack)
It sounds like you may be at a stage where you really want to just get over this - and this will mean just really thinking about yourself and trying not to worry about what she may be feeling or thinking. By all means think about what happened with you guys in the past, but then try to let it go and realise it's all part of life's learning.
Any more comments are welcome
To be fair theres no point getting wound up over something you may have potentially caused with the PC gaming. You'll end up hating yourself.
People perhaps should get a second chance in life, but by no means to they deserve it if its up to someone other than yourself thats giving you the second chance, otherwise it turns into more of a demand "GIVE ME A SECOND CHANCE" and if that ever happens, people might get a bit funny about it.
Id leave it for a bit, if she wants you back, or if she thinks you should get a second chance, then she will let you know.
but i shall do what you suggest Mr G and just lay off n see what happens