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Tight foreskin leading to impossible sex!
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So I've started seeing a new guy, and he's quite large downstairs.
Anyways, his foreskin is obviously too tight when he gets hard. I've noticed just from looking and he says that it's painful to pull all the way back, and until about 6 months ago he never knew it could go all the way back!
Our problem is that because he's quite thick, and apparently I'm quite tight, when we're trying to get started his foreskin is being pulled right back while he's trying to get it in......thus making him lose his erection!
I suggested maybe if we try large condoms it might help? Might make his foreskin not pull back as much?
We've tried a lot of fingering to make me looser, but that kinda takes me out of the mood because it's like a little routine.
Does anyone have ANY ideas how to sort it other then the C word lol?!
Thankies!!!!
Anyways, his foreskin is obviously too tight when he gets hard. I've noticed just from looking and he says that it's painful to pull all the way back, and until about 6 months ago he never knew it could go all the way back!
Our problem is that because he's quite thick, and apparently I'm quite tight, when we're trying to get started his foreskin is being pulled right back while he's trying to get it in......thus making him lose his erection!
I suggested maybe if we try large condoms it might help? Might make his foreskin not pull back as much?
We've tried a lot of fingering to make me looser, but that kinda takes me out of the mood because it's like a little routine.
Does anyone have ANY ideas how to sort it other then the C word lol?!
Thankies!!!!
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18% of men have it and i bet most do not know
(edit) having re-read your post, it doesn't really sound like exactly the same thing, but it's worth reading up on just on case
It was only back in 2007 I finally got it sorted once and for all. I was fed up of not just the problem with pee, but of sex being interminably crap. So to hell with it, I thought. I went to see my doctor - he referred me to the hospital. I explained to them the situation and things happened surprisingly quickly. The only problem after having a circumcision is the head of your dick can be extremely sensitive for a week or so afterwards. It's also advised that men who have just been circumcised refrain from sexual activity for several weeks, although medical experts will give more detailed information in any case.
People claim that another disadvantage of being circumcised is that the head of the penis becomes less sensitive, and that therefore it will take longer for him to ejaculate during sex. Don't believe this - the scientific evidence for this claim is distinctly shaky, and no woman is going to complain about a man who's able to last for longer in the bedroom, is she? Besides, all I'd ever known beforehand was miserable and sometimes downright painful sex, so I couldn't care less if I did lose some sensitivity. Get it done!
I really like him so when things went belly up at the weekend I made sure to tell him that I'm not just with him for sex etc. But I really can't see a way around it other than him going to the doctor's for a bit of advice
Oh...circumcised is the C word...
Gentle stretching every now and then does wonders, and I can now get it over when fully erect with little to no pain. I have not been in a posititon to try it out, but I believe that this is enough for full intercourse. I'm still in the process of getting it a little wider so it can easily slide over the tip without any force. For a little help, you could also try a topical steroid cream. I have one prescribed by the doctor for my exzema, but it seems to have helped on that part of the body too.
With any luck you won't need to have to go to a circumscision happy doctor (a course of action I believe is overused).
If this doesn't work it could be something else, but it highly unlikely.
I wasn't getting anything from sex at all because it was fucking agony. I even thought I was asexual for a while
Deffo gunna be having a word with him today
I have and I just thought they were all curcumcised.
I had exactly the same problem - word for word!
The things is there is only one solution - and it IS the 'c' word. But I tell you it was the best thing I ever did! The ladies love it, it's much more hygeinic and the head gets even bigger now.
For about a week to 10 days after the operation he'll be walking like C3PO but pretty soon he'll be ok. The stitches will try up and dissolve and he'll be back in action in no time
You know, I don't think this 'c' word is as bad as people make out. I mean, sure it's different, but as you say, it's got its advantages!
Oh yeah...good point!
I was eating when I read this.
I'm not feeling so hungry now.
As for the problem, I think everyone else has already said what needs to be said.
The 'C' word is NOT the only solution. It is very likely that this can be cleared up without surgery. I have never spoken to anyone about this, not even a doctor, and it is practically normal now.
I have heard many horror stories about unneccassary cutting so I repeat:
DO NOT GET CIRCUMSCISED UNLESS YOU HAVE TRIED EVERYTHING ELSE AND THERE IS NO OTHER ALTERNATIVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It's what the doctor told me, mind you this was in 1994.
The US uses baby foreskins to culture the best possible skin grafts techniques. So having a stiff arm on occasion, for instance, MAY be down to something other than what you initially think.
:eek2: please say your joking
Please?
Eww...my ex was from the US and had a skin graft!
Oh wait...they used his skin.
http://www.intercytex.com/icx/products/woundcare/icxskn/
And don't be so grossed out, your neighbor probably has some baby weenie on them as well! You've probably touched it already. I think that would make you a pedofile
There is even a new anti-wrinkle treatment similar to Botox, called Vavelta, which uses discarded foreskins and a face cream called SkinMedica, which Oprah Winfrey and a number of other celebs swear by.