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Is it just me?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
is it just me that wants sex once a day? is that normal or are people content with only, like, 3 times a week?
or do i just have an abnormally high sex drive?

im confused :eek2:

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i want it all the time...if i could have it 3 or 4 times a day i would...but then i know that i used to have problems with it, so, thats just me...

    i think once a day is perfectly fine...as long as you can control yourself...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    twisted_trinity wrote: »

    i think once a day is perfectly fine

    ptsh! tell that to my boy :grump:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I find that some days I just can't be arsed with it (that tends to be after a long, stressful day in the office), and others I am just RAAAAWWWWRRRR all day (which tend to be the days off where my girl and I are able to spend some quality time together) and we'll have numerous naughty engagements.

    You take the ups with the downs... excuse the pun ;)


    Bought some interesting things to play with from Harmony on the weekend. Fun times!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ri, it's definitely not just you!
    Though the occassional day off does happen.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If I could..I would.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thanks god!
    i thought it was just me
    how can you not be in the mood for sex? im always in the mood!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I want it all the time.

    But that's probably because I've gone over 24 years without it.:crying:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *Ri* wrote: »
    thanks god!
    i thought it was just me
    how can you not be in the mood for sex? im always in the mood!

    Even if, very oddly, I'm not, my bf just has to suggest it and I want it! HAHA!
    Maybe we're just lucky!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *Ri* wrote: »
    thanks god!
    i thought it was just me
    how can you not be in the mood for sex? im always in the mood!

    Heh, have a 10 hour and upwards day in a stressful environment. I can pretty much guarantee that you won't be in the mood... ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    g_angel wrote: »
    Heh, have a 10 hour and upwards day in a stressful environment. I can pretty much guarantee that you won't be in the mood... ;)

    That's why it's good having a partner that hasn't had such a stressful day :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have it maybe once a week. But that's because my sex drive has plummeted and because I was having pain issues over the summer that aren't 100% gone yet. Annnnnd because I had a 9-week period which only ended about 2-3 weeks ago and because I was put on the pill to get rid of said period, I'm now on my break and therefore back on my period.

    God, that sounds so much worse than it feels :(.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Franki wrote: »
    I have it maybe once a week. But that's because my sex drive has plummeted and because I was having pain issues over the summer that aren't 100% gone yet. Annnnnd because I had a 9-week period which only ended about 2-3 weeks ago and because I was put on the pill to get rid of said period, I'm now on my break and therefore back on my period.

    God, that sounds so much worse than it feels :(.

    At least it doesn't feel worse than it sounds!
    Glad things are getting better, Franki.
    And glad you have a guy to stick by you through it all.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hmmm once or twice a week is plenty for me. As bad as this sounds I sort of forget about sex, like it hardly ever occurrs to me 'yeah we could be having sex'. Meh.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'll have it at least once a day if I'm with my man, but generally more.
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    SkiveSkive Posts: 15,286 Skive's The Limit
    Not everyday, not anymore anyway.

    Work too many hours. Generally find I'm up for it more in the mornings than the evening as well.
    Weekender Offender 
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Kazbo wrote: »
    I'll have it at least once a day if I'm with my man, but generally more.

    jealous :grump:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Could happily deal with that much, but single and well behaved at the minute, so none for me.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If I met the right woman, I'd want to be at it every hour of the day!

    Sadly, I'm getting none of it right now.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    there used to be times when i'd fuck 4 times a day if possible...but then i'd get agro the next day so it just became not worth the hassle...

    and g angel...isn't harmony the best!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    there are just a few minutes a day I wouldn't want sex.

    but sex is like oxygen. you just crave it, when you're short of it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Exactly StrubbleS. It's the whole 'the more you have it the more you want it' issue.

    To be fair, if I could have sex everyday but it's crap or just occasionally and it's flipping mind blowing..I know what option I'd go for ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I go thru phases...sometimes a few times a day isnt enough, but there are times when twice a week is a lot. agree with g angel, after stressful day at work it aint on my radar.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    oh my god.
    had sex last night...and it was...awful :O
    whats happened to him :'(
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    twisted_trinity wrote: »

    and g angel...isn't harmony the best!

    Oh yes ;) My girl is up for trying new things, so it's all good :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i'm saving up for numerous things, its just a question of getting a guy that will allow me to be dominatrix for a day (each week!)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    its normal. I go through phases of having it several times a day, but at the moment im happy with just a few times a week. My sexdrive plummeted after my last pregnancy and is up, but not what it was. Im just too busy, tired and stressed. A lot of time we have the opportunity and all we wanna do is just flake out instead of make out :P
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    twisted_trinity wrote: »
    there used to be times when i'd fuck 4 times a day if possible...but then i'd get agro the next day so it just became not worth the hassle...

    and g angel...isn't harmony the best!

    What is this harmony? I'm intrigued.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's a shop that sells interesting things of a sexual nature...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Marina Aniseed wrote: »
    It's a shop that sells interesting things of a sexual nature...

    Is it *really* interesting...
    Or just oh, that's cute interesting?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Skive wrote: »

    Work too many hours. Generally find I'm up for it more in the mornings than the evening as well.

    That's the same with my girlfriend... which is frustrating as fuck cos I usually have to wake up hours earlier than her, so the timing is crap.

    Either that or she's up for it at like 2am, when I have to be up at 5. :mad:
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