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Do I make a move or wait?
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short version:
A friend (A girl) i really have been atracted to for a while was dumped (i no of no other way to put it) on the 5th and shes been devistated for a couple of days but shes showing signs (at least i think so) of getting over the guy, which i think is a good thing cos the way he broke up with her was discusting tbh, any way I no i'm gonna wait a while until shes defo over it and is looking for someone but i really don't no how long to wait?
Extra info:
A while back at a party, both of us drunk, we kissed and well, i told her that i liked her alot, she said that she couldn't cos she was dating the twat that broke up with her on the 5th, any way the next day she texted me about what i said and i replied that i did like her but i was drunk i shouldn;t have said it, we never talked about it again
also i really quite LIKED her best friend and i asked her if she knew if her mate liked me as well, so she nos bout that (this was before the party incident)
i also don't really see her to often cos i'm in college shes at school and we don't live to close together
any way i;m really confused on what to do, do i ask her soon or wait for a while and see what happens any advice would be great guys
thanks
short version:
A friend (A girl) i really have been atracted to for a while was dumped (i no of no other way to put it) on the 5th and shes been devistated for a couple of days but shes showing signs (at least i think so) of getting over the guy, which i think is a good thing cos the way he broke up with her was discusting tbh, any way I no i'm gonna wait a while until shes defo over it and is looking for someone but i really don't no how long to wait?
Extra info:
A while back at a party, both of us drunk, we kissed and well, i told her that i liked her alot, she said that she couldn't cos she was dating the twat that broke up with her on the 5th, any way the next day she texted me about what i said and i replied that i did like her but i was drunk i shouldn;t have said it, we never talked about it again
also i really quite LIKED her best friend and i asked her if she knew if her mate liked me as well, so she nos bout that (this was before the party incident)
i also don't really see her to often cos i'm in college shes at school and we don't live to close together
any way i;m really confused on what to do, do i ask her soon or wait for a while and see what happens any advice would be great guys
thanks
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Although that's just my gut instinct - it could very well backfire.
Thanks for ur advice, and well i've though about what to do and i'm gonna wait for a while, but on a similar subject, on saturday i've got a hockey match :-) and theres a girl going to watch that appartnly quite likes me and well, shes nice and shes HOT :eek: (sorry but its the only way of describing her) and theres a definite spark between us, anyway, me and a few guys are going out for the rest of the day and shes coming and well, considering my current predicament idk if i should do anything about it or just leave it