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I need help with this (redo)

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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I have been seeing this one girl for about 7 months now, and im only 14m i take my relationships more serious than most of my peers because i am more likely, from my observations, more mature, well anyway, about 5 months ago her mom saw us kissing (making out) and ever since i haven't been allowed to see this girl,2/7 months we have been allowed to date. and i saw her web page and it had another guy all over it just recently, when i talked to her she said she did it because her friend told her she thought i was cheating on her, so the next day, after not even talking to me, she starts dating another guy,now we continue to go out. we talked things through, she had her reasons.i have done so much to try and make this relationship work, and we wont be able to see each other until we are 17, unless she convinces her mom otherwise, would it really be worth the wait to wait for a true love, me and her have been through so much in 7 months, more than couples for years. is this worth it??? OK, before you reply, please exclude the fact that I'm 'just 13' I've heard it enough, has anyone here truly been in love? this isn't half the story, e-mail me if you would like to here at least, and then maybe ill get better help, sorry for the font the last time.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    True love is always worth it .. but I am concerned that she did not approach you first to find out whether you had, in fact, been cheating or not.

    Perhaps her 'maturity' and 'commitment' is not as high as yours? And also, why would her mom let her have a new boyfriend if she would not allow you two to be together? It seems a little odd.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm sorry to say that this relationship seems very unbalanced. Sure, you love her and want to be with her but she was quite quick to be with some other guy. So as much as you might truly love her, it doesn't seem to be reciprocated, in which case I think you'd be wasting the best years of your life waiting around for her.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well i know that for a fact, like i said she dosent like me because she saw us making out
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Whether you love her or not, I think it's going to turn pear-shaped anyway pretty soon, judging by the circumstances you've already found yourself. in.
    The fact that her mother doesn't want you going out with her says it all. And to "wait 'til you're 17"? Forget it, that's way too long, and chances are, one or both of you will only get fed up and move onto different things.

    To be brutally honest, probably best to just learn from the experience, move on and enjoy yourself instead. Don't bother prelonging the inevitible...

    As said already, don't throw your youth away over something like this.
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