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I Can't Cum?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
I feel as if i am about to cum but then i have this feeling like i need to pee but it doesn't come out and my penis really hurts, it feels very irritated at the time. Can someone please tell me why? :confused::confused::confused:

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You haven't hit the right stage of puberty yet perhaps. Let your body catch up with your brain.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi,

    Sorry to hear how much this is bothering you. Reading your post I'm thinking there are two possible ways to answer your question - one if you have come regularly before but no longer can, the other that you just haven't ever cum.

    If you haven't ever cum then there's a good chance, as mentioned by junker, that your body just isn't producing any sperm yet.

    Here's an exert from an article answering the same issue you mention -
    It is possible that you have not reached that stage of puberty where your body begins producing sperm and is capable of having an ejaculation. Prior to the ability to ejaculate your body goes through several changes. The penis starts to grow in length then width. Your testicles and scrotum begin to enlarge and pubic hair starts to get darker. Facial hair is starting to develop and your voice is becoming deeper or at least hitting unexpected high pitches (cracking). You begin to get erections, sometimes without warning.
    http://www.teenhealthfx.com/answers/Sexuality/882.html

    As this is obviously a big concern, and if you are going through puberty at the moment, then the best place to call is probably Brook - who can answer any question about sex and sexual development no matter the age of the caller.

    You can contact them on 0800 0185 023 or check out the Ask Brook service - https://ssl15.lon.gb.securedata.net/brook.org.uk/submission/brk_welcome.asp

    On the other hand, if you're no longer going through puberty and if you have cum in the past and things have stopped working then it's going to be a good idea to contact your doctor and speak to them about what's going on. I'm reluctant to mention more about possible reasons for that enless you let us know that's the actual situation, as the problem does sound like it's far more likely to be related to puberty.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Have you ever ejaculated? I remember being about 11 and having that feeling of needing to pee when wanking, then one day it just "came". :D :thumb:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yerascrote wrote: »
    Have you ever ejaculated? I remember being about 11 and having that feeling of needing to pee when wanking, then one day it just "came". :D :thumb:


    Same here!

    I used to stop at this point as I thought i'd just piss, but believe me it's not.

    I've wanked loads of times when needed a piss and piss never comes out ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thanks guys that pretty much answers my question :yippe:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I couldn't cum till I was about 18. Had been having erections / wet dreams for ages but was unable to cum through masturbating, exactly like OP it just started to hurt after a while. Then after getting with a girl for the first time and playing with breasts, pussy etc ('2-dimensional' porn does nothing for me) its been pretty easy to masturbate- fantasising about sex and cum instantly. Anyway OP shouldn't worry for now....
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