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erection problems at 23!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Hi guys, right... how do i put this

Iv always been a very horny boy, previous girlfriends have said that i'm always standing to attention and ready go. Which was true!! Iv started seeing a girl, its lasted 6 months so far and the sex has been amazing until now. Thing is whenever I get an erection, its never totally hard:crying: , like it is erect but not totally hard if you get me? Its not a semi because I know what they are. I also seem to lose my erection quite quick as well. This is really starting to bug me as a month ago I was totally fine.

She thinks I mite be stressed but I honestly don't feel that at all! Even when I masturbate its not fully hard anymore!!!:no: . I have also felt a drop in sex drive as well which to be honest is insane, my girlfriend is a very very attractive girl.

I just wanna know if any one has gone through a similar experiance and what was the outcome? I think if it continues i'm gonna go to the doctor, but when can he do? Prescirbe me viagra??:eek: I'm only 23 and this is happening, why is this happening!!!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Have a look here :

    http://www.thesite.org.uk/sexandrelationships/havingsex/performanceproblems/impotence

    http://www.thesite.org.uk/sexandrelationships/havingsex/performanceproblems/highperformancepenis

    (Helen, you can send me my cheque in the mail!) ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've had something a bit similar recently because condoms don't seem to like me. I can have a full hard-on, slap a condom on and it goes into the kind of state you're talking about, not a semi but not quite fully hard. Anyway it makes it a bit more uncomfortable to go in her, but you can manage it, then once you start fucking her it may get harder, even if it doesnt if its in almost-there mode it should be enough to pleasure her.. and this way you can keep on going for an hour without cumming which is great for her! Otherwise just get the position / hands right when you're in her and it should come back.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanks for the responses guys. that link was useful tegan. Although I think the problem may be psychological and I think I may have lost interest in sex or something similar. I mean there's this new girl in the office who is very hot , and to look at her mentally I would like to fuck her but dont know if i could.
    God this is depressing, at least my girlfriend is ok about it, shes been a star so far, I just don't know what im going to do in the long term. I can't expect her to continue without some form of sex and I dont really wanna pull out mr hard/partially soft for some fun.:no:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Try abstaining for a while too .... that tends to put Mr Grumpy in the mood. ;)
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