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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Right here it goes. Ive been with my Girlfreind for like 3 months now and were both 17, and i think shes ready for sex, shes been saying things such as shes gonna suck me off and things like that the next time she gets me on me own. Were both virgins although she as told me that shes given hand jobs before.

Now i need your advice as im really insecure about my nob, im so insecure that ive been and got the tape measure:blush: right to me it looks small and is 6 inches in length and a very diassapointing 4.3 inches in girth, when erect, and when it isnt erect it really does look small :banghead:

Ive also got the added fear about premature ejaculation as im a virgin :banghead:

I really love the girl but im worried that shell be dissapointed with it, and wont get any pleasure at all :banghead: it also doesnt help that if she doesnt like it, it could find its way around college :banghead: :blush:

Any advice please people?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    why would it find its way round college?
    I think if you think shed do that, then maybe its best to wait a bit longer.

    I wouldnt worry about the size. 6 inches is average - even slightly above.
    Noone gives a shit what unerect penises look like, i promise you.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yea but id of thought it was the girth that matterd more which mine is very dissapointing :banghead:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm sorry right but if shes going to blab especially about something as personal as that then shes really not worth it.
    As for size... it really doesnt matter. I've slept with 3 people and I couldnt tell you who was biggest.

    As long as where not talking an inch or 12 inches girls dont pay that much attension.

    Dont worry about it not being errect either because I doubt that will last very long.

    Just dont worry, relax and make sure your happy loosing it to her because regrets are awful...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's not whether YOU think she's ready, it's whe3ther SHE thinks she's ready.

    As for your knob, don't worry about anything. Just go with the flow, and remember that most porn stars knobs are only about 6 inches anyways, and you're looking down on it, not close up, right next to it.

    Anyways, back to my original point - ask her if she's ready.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You an have a small unerect penis, but when ya errect ya will almost for certain be the average, so dont worry mate!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    cheers people any more advice cus im still not convinced about my girth
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Wow, who cares? Stick the fucker in and be done with it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nemisus wrote: »
    cheers people any more advice cus im still not convinced about my girth

    Grith. Width. Length. Who gives a fuck! :)

    With experience you'll find that none of it matters at all.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nemisus wrote: »
    cheers people any more advice cus im still not convinced about my girth

    well what ya gonna do about it>?

    Youve got what youve got.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    then if your making a big deal about it then wait.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    if she really loved you she wouldnt care. expecially if its your first time. i know how that goes. my boyfriend did the same thing and it was my first time doing that whole thing too. so it didnt really matter.

    so hopefully she is nice and wont careee.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    big dicks aren't as perfect as people make them up to be, they hurt!
    especially if its the girls first time && sucking big dicks isn't that fun either...
    so be happy :)
    also, your dick isnt small, its average :) many boys are worse off! :)
    and everyone worries about there first time, dont worry you'll be fine! many have been through it and managed, otherwise you wouldnt be here! hehe

    good luck though, don't rush make sure your ready, not just her!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    6 inches is fine. More than average. So is the girth. and besides, it really is motion of the ocean. You'll be able to do it more times than a guy with a massive knob before she starts to ache - stop worrying - you're fine.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's not the size of the boat it's the motion of the ocean or something like that.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    umm cheers people, she was touching me in that area today and having a handfull so im assuming that she had a proper feel and of how big it was, and she dint say owt or anything, she just carried on. so hopefully thats a good sign
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ur average!don't worry bout it.just take it really slow
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well what ya gonna do about it>?

    Youve got what youve got.

    Exactly! :yes:
    nemisus wrote: »
    umm cheers people, she was touching me in that area today and having a handfull so im assuming that she had a proper feel and of how big it was, and she dint say owt or anything, she just carried on. so hopefully thats a good sign

    You're just gonna fuck your head in worrying about something that you ought not to worry about.

    Why would she want to gossip about it around college? If she had slightly small breasts, for example, would you blab that off to everyone in college? Why assume that she would do any different to you?

    And your dick and girth are perfectly normal. There are many a lot smaller and thinner so just be bloody grateful that you have what you have, because its nothing you can change.

    If you concentrate more on your personality, humour and the respect that you show her, she won't even notice or care about your dick size. You are getting anxious over nothing - unless the size of your penis is the sum of your total being. If so, you have every right to be anxious.

    So, chill ... smile ... and accept! :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Look, most blokes would love to have an extra inch or two down there. But unless you're prepared to resort to surgery - which has a hell of a lot of risks - you're gonna have to learn to accept what you've got. The size of your dick is only going to be an issue if you make it one. Any girl who truly likes you is going to be far more interested in the man that's attached to the cock.
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