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Advice please people
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Right here it goes. Ive been with my Girlfreind for like 3 months now and were both 17, and i think shes ready for sex, shes been saying things such as shes gonna suck me off and things like that the next time she gets me on me own. Were both virgins although she as told me that shes given hand jobs before.
Now i need your advice as im really insecure about my nob, im so insecure that ive been and got the tape measure right to me it looks small and is 6 inches in length and a very diassapointing 4.3 inches in girth, when erect, and when it isnt erect it really does look small :banghead:
Ive also got the added fear about premature ejaculation as im a virgin :banghead:
I really love the girl but im worried that shell be with it, and wont get any pleasure at all :banghead: it also doesnt help that if she doesnt like it, it could find its way around college :banghead:
Any advice please people?
Now i need your advice as im really insecure about my nob, im so insecure that ive been and got the tape measure right to me it looks small and is 6 inches in length and a very diassapointing 4.3 inches in girth, when erect, and when it isnt erect it really does look small :banghead:
Ive also got the added fear about premature ejaculation as im a virgin :banghead:
I really love the girl but im worried that shell be with it, and wont get any pleasure at all :banghead: it also doesnt help that if she doesnt like it, it could find its way around college :banghead:
Any advice please people?
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I think if you think shed do that, then maybe its best to wait a bit longer.
I wouldnt worry about the size. 6 inches is average - even slightly above.
Noone gives a shit what unerect penises look like, i promise you.
As for size... it really doesnt matter. I've slept with 3 people and I couldnt tell you who was biggest.
As long as where not talking an inch or 12 inches girls dont pay that much attension.
Dont worry about it not being errect either because I doubt that will last very long.
Just dont worry, relax and make sure your happy loosing it to her because regrets are awful...
As for your knob, don't worry about anything. Just go with the flow, and remember that most porn stars knobs are only about 6 inches anyways, and you're looking down on it, not close up, right next to it.
Anyways, back to my original point - ask her if she's ready.
Grith. Width. Length. Who gives a fuck!
With experience you'll find that none of it matters at all.
well what ya gonna do about it>?
Youve got what youve got.
so hopefully she is nice and wont careee.
especially if its the girls first time && sucking big dicks isn't that fun either...
so be happy
also, your dick isnt small, its average many boys are worse off!
and everyone worries about there first time, dont worry you'll be fine! many have been through it and managed, otherwise you wouldnt be here! hehe
good luck though, don't rush make sure your ready, not just her!
Exactly! :yes:
You're just gonna fuck your head in worrying about something that you ought not to worry about.
Why would she want to gossip about it around college? If she had slightly small breasts, for example, would you blab that off to everyone in college? Why assume that she would do any different to you?
And your dick and girth are perfectly normal. There are many a lot smaller and thinner so just be bloody grateful that you have what you have, because its nothing you can change.
If you concentrate more on your personality, humour and the respect that you show her, she won't even notice or care about your dick size. You are getting anxious over nothing - unless the size of your penis is the sum of your total being. If so, you have every right to be anxious.
So, chill ... smile ... and accept! :thumb: