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I can't cum whilst using a condom, why?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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I'm 21 years old & I don't have any problems whilst I masturbate. But when I have sex with a condom I can never cum! On the other hand if I have sex without a condom I cum every time! What is the problem/solution? & is there a way around this so I can cum whilst using a condom? Because I don't want to freak girls out by telling them I can't use condoms!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I too cannot get there with a rubbber on. Just give her a good time then get her to finish you off a different way lol
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    cazwyn86 wrote: »
    I'm 21 years old & I don't have any problems whilst I masturbate. But when I have sex with a condom I can never cum! On the other hand if I have sex without a condom I cum every time! What is the problem/solution? & is there a way around this so I can cum whilst using a condom? Because I don't want to freak girls out by telling them I can't use condoms!

    Get durex feather lite ones or 'natural' feeling ones which are thinner condoms but still provide protection against stds pregnancy etc.
    Or that tingle lube stuff might help??
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Have you tried to wank while having condom on? I did that few times when I was younger....needed to in order to be able to put the damn things on properly and quickly without losing wood!!

    Anyway give it a go while got some porn on or something.... the key is to get your body/cock use to wearing one.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think its all in the head personally! it's the stigma "I have a condom on, im not having fun" attitude in the back of your head! used to take me ages to cum wearing one but then my girfriend at the time started putting on the condom for me, so like that was a sexual activity in itself. So all was good with the wood!!! :D:D:D:D:D:D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    dohc wrote: »
    ...but then my girfriend at the time started putting on the condom for me, so like that was a sexual activity in itself...
    Oh yes. I do like to let a woman put on the condom. Let's face it - condoms aren't terribly romantic. You're both in bed, you both know you're going to have sex, but you have to wait and put the condom on first. Letting her put it on is a great way to get her involved, and as a bonus, the bloke gets his wood handled by his girlfriend. I think it's one sign of trust between partners myself.
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